Hello. I'm a 31 male stationed in Japan and I've noticed it's hard trying to find someone who could be the one. I just can't seem to find anyone thats willing to commit. Yes, im kinda on DL only a few people know about me. But ive been on some dates but nothing happend. Alot of the time its always younger guys but i just dont want someone whos like a decade younger than me. Its kinda weird in my eyes lol. And It's always about sex, which is great and all but I'm getting old i would love to finally settle down. I've tried tinder, bumble but nothing works. I dont want to give up but it's comes point where I don't want to put any more effort into it and get let down. Any advice on what I can do or what website or anything.