Thank you, guys. I took my first HPV vaccine by going to my school doctor and coming out to him. The day before I went to a doctor in local clinic but couldnt say I had a gay sex. So i am improving day by day. The School doctor took a blood test of me and told me I am immune to Hep A and B, I need only HPV at this moment. Which I took. Later, he suggested me to take Prep if I dont wear protection. But I told him I always wear condom. So he told me at this moment then I dont need Prep.

I asked him is kissing and oral safe? He said Kissing is generally safe but the possibility of getting herpes is there. And oral might lead to syphilis, gonorrhoea, chlamydia and trichomoniasis. So I am decided that i am not getting into oral without condom if i dont find any trusted partner. I know it will feel weird to the casual encounters but i dont know if i want to take that risk. And do u guys bother to have herpes through kissing? I am not actually that germophobic but still i dont want to get STD atm as i am working 6 days a week and a full time student.