I am 21 studying abroad in London (Zone 1) next year from January to May. I am currently not "Out" at home and have never had a relationship. But I have had some hookups. I currently have supportive friends who I feel like I know, but I have not said anything. I have overheard some speculation, and if I were seeing someone, I would not mind telling them, but also, they have never asked me. My parents don't know, but my mom definitely suspects and has made it clear: "There's nothing I could do that would make her stop talking to me or loving me," and other stuff that makes me think she knows. But my dad does not, and I am financially dependent on him, but I think he would be supportive. anyway

I will be studying abroad in London in January and want to start dating, but I don't know where to start. Or what my expectations should really be. I kind of want something more serious not just a hookup biut i am just kind of worried how to do that when i have a definite end date. But also, I have never dated, period, so I kind of don't even know where to start, like dating app-wise or places to go in person to meet guys. I have been going to the gym and losing weight in preparation.

Also I am wondering if i should be going on Prep? I am not on it now, but I don't have sex that often and never without a condom. I don't know what might happen once I get there.

And mentally, how should I approach studying abroad and dating while abroad? Is there anything I should know about men in London/Europe? Is there any advice about general health things or what I should do before I leave? .