I’m a black man and a gym guy, I’m versitle, meaning when I am with a guy I prefer some that is the same as me, however it often poses a problem when people see me online or on apps… Being muscular or athletic and also being black, gives everyone the idea that I am a TOP, and 99% of the time I am only approached by feminine men and total bottoms! That are so eager to send me an ass picture or a pic of them bent over with their ass spread open, and it’s a total turn off for me! I’m aware that some guys like getting those kinds of pics… I’m just not one of them, I can not help the way that I look or how I carry myself… guys just assume I’m a dominant aggressive power top! Or they want me to fulfill their fantasies as a bottom… I’d ideally like to meet someone that is vers as well and not just say they are very yet only want to be dominated and a bottom. *For me, being a gay man is being able to be with another man and having access to their dick as well as ass, but I’m only ever offered ass… lol Does anyone else have this same experience or issue ? Do other guys assume your sexual preference whether it being a top or bottom?