As the title implies, I am looking for a relationship, so if you are looking for "fun" or if you are only looking for the sexual aspect of BDSM, don't text me. I am looking for something way beyond a merely sexual level of BDSM. My ideal would be the combination of a relationship and BDSM where sexual, nonsexual and emotional needs are met (a combination of a sub and a boyfriend to give you a rough idea). Therefore, I am not simply looking for common interests as BDSM is concerned, of course. I am not looking for something plainly sexual either if that didn't get clear now already.

If this sounds interesting to you, let me know. I would expect that you invest effort on how you communicate and particularly on your introductory message as well though. I won't respond to poor introductory messages anymore. Tell me your name, your age, a rough idea of where you're living, your interests and hobbies... let me get to know you and have something to start a conversation from. Tell me why my ad raised your interest as well and what experiences you have as a sub. I would also highly appreciate if you added a few regular selfies to your introductory message.

As I live in (Northern) Germany, it would be advantageous if you did, too. I seek for a relationship and a long distance relationship (if there is no intention of moving from the start) is not my thing. As for my personality, I am interested im quite a few things you might refer to as "geeky" or nerdy, such as board, card and video games, animes, horrors, the Asian culture (if you couldn't tell by "animes" already). I am protective and caring, so as a Dom, my style doesn't rely on humiliation consequently. I do also enjoy good movies or series that focus on crime, fantasy or horror, including but not limited to American Horror Story, Star Wars, Criminal Minds, Lord of the Rings, the Cthulhu universe (Lovecraft), Batman and many more. I'm told regularly that I am a calm/soothing person and easy to talk to. I'm a good listener as well.

Let's see if we click and where we could go from there. I've got a few years of experience, but I don't mind your level of experience though. Maybe you want to know what BDSM is all about, maybe you have been in a few relationships already. If you are a good Sub and carefully read this text, include the term "Harley" in your introductory message.