I had a few encounters recently which caused me to wonder about things from other people's experience.

Here's the scenario. I have a few ads I post depending on if my partner wants to join. One of them is m4m, that one has the least interest. One is advertised as male and female gloryhole that one gets a bunch of interest.

A ton of guys respond but a lot of them just want to be sucked by the female. Some of them don't want to know. Some of them just don't even ask.

This is where I'm curious about other experiences. I have had my partner tell me to just suck them no matter what because they won't know. I have had my partner back out after changing her mind and then suggest that I just don't tell them it's only a man. I don't do this because I feel like it's dishonest and kind of rapey. Also I don't want them to get pissed and break my things or slash my tires or something.

What do any of you think about all that? What do you do when they start wanting to know who's sucking. Do you think it's wrong to let them think it's a female?

What if they don't ask? Do you feel obligated to let them know it's a male?

I wanted to try bottoming at the hole but they ask for ass pic which I think is stupid. They wouldn't be able to see my ass no matter what so why does it matter. The dick goes in the hole and they stare at the wall/ darkness. I could just send a fake ass pic that looks really nice so they are excited. ( I don't do that just saying I could)

Currently I'm just being open and honest with everyone because I feel like it's the right thing. If they ask for identifying features ect I just cut ties. What about the rest of you?