So, long story but trying to summarize it here.

When I (30M, bi) was in college, I was exploring my sexuality. Mainly looking to see what I was into, I knew I liked older men. At that point Grindr had just started, so most of the people I had met up with were through Craigslist. One of the first people I messaged from Grindr was this ~45 year old daddy type. Let's call him Mike. I message Mike and it's all normal, surprised that he wanted to talk first before just hooking up. I think I had on my profile that I was a bottom and wanted to try being submissive. We end up talking about that and he said he'd be happy to indulge my submissive side.

We talk for about two weeks, setting boundaries and what I would like to try. I go to his house and I got to experience a real dominant man. He was verbal, rough, and liked it when I moaned. I came early and post nut clarity hit, so he agreed to just cum on my face. I left and thought I would never talk to him again.

Within a week I was back at Mike's place lol. He got me into poppers, we tried restraints and getting tied up. Slowly grew into really enjoying bondage and power play. He would have me at his house for half a day, ordering me around, using my throat whenever he felt like it and fucking me before I left.

About a few months of this, he says I should try chastity. I had seen it in porn and was intrigued. He brought one out and put it on me. I was so hard in the cage, I could feel the strain and it felt so good. I think I was at Mike's house for the whole day that day. I begged him to fuck me much earlier than usual, probably because the chastity strain felt so good. We fucked twice that day, I was only allowed to cum just before I left.

The next week, now being absolutely horny all the time thinking about Mike, I asked him if he could plan a threesome. He said sure and brought some guy he had hooked up with (probably ~30). I was locked, made to serve them for a few hours, then sent on my way.

This kept going for most of my senior year in college. Never romantically attracted to men, hooked up with multiple women while all of this was happening. But I craved dom/sub role play. We both messed around with other people and got tested fairly regularly (once month).

I graduated and lost touch with Mike. Have yet to find the satisfaction from my time with him, have dated women (one long term relationship right now 4 years in) but nothing has gotten me as hard as Mike.

Mike, if you read this, you're awesome. Thanks for making me addicted to power dynamics and dom/sub play. You're the OG for me 😂