Hey im a sub in relationship. My partner is not a natural Dom but he enjoys taking on the role as he likes pleasing me. The only "bad" part is that i have to guide him and more or less tell him what he can do and what i want. This kinda takes me out of the fantasy as I would love for him to just do what he desires to do to me, of curse within both of our boundaries.

I was thinking I would make a cheat sheet of things he could do and kinks he could try out with me.

So I was wondering if any of you had some must tries i should put on the list or maybe even had a similar list. Haven't been able to find anything online except kink quizes.

I love feeling as an object/slut to be used and I'm very open to kinks and only have hard pain and scat as a hard nos.

Note: we do bondage and blindfold stuff already, so unless you have a kinky twist to it, then it is already in his repertoire ;)