So I’m no stranger to seeing someone attractive and looking them up and down. However. It’s not in a “what do you look like naked” kind of way. More so Mmm you have all the right physical features that I would want my potential boyfriend to have. Almost like a checklist or I’ll see a guy that’s attractive and notice their “assets”. And be like oh that’s my type. It does exist. Could he be a match or just an example of what I want my match to be and then I’ll go on about my day. And I’ll have lustful jokes just to be funny when I’m with friends and we see cute guy but in all seriousness. If I’m looking at a guy and I think he’s cute. I wanna go on a date and get to know him. Make a connection. Anywho I’m just asking for help on differentiating what’s lust and what isn’t or what’s borderline 😂 cuz I don’t want to have lust in my heart.