I've (m31) met a number of people, mostly doms. I'm also in long term relationship with a sub (M26) and whenever I dom him or someone else I'm told I'm pretty good, but it's not as sexually fulfilling for me.

At some point I started indicating to my boyfriend that I want to sub more. When it happens, despite identifying as 100% submissive, he makes a good dom.

Whenever I subbed I could sense the same indicators from my doms, kind of "I'd rather sub, but I'm happy to dom for you". Or sometimes with switches "you're not good enough to dom you, but you can dom me". Also there's less doms than subs and generally much easier to find decent subs than decent doms. Most kinky sex workers are also doms.

Basically, it seems like domming someone is a favour or roleplay while subbing is more like receiving it. What you're guys thinking?