So.... I am very inexperienced to the leather world.

I’ve been invited to an underwear party at a leather bar and I’d like to wear my black cotton jock strap with knee socks and my 10 inch combat boots. And nothing else.

The last time I was at a party like this and wore my jock, and had my ass exposed, I had a couple different guys - total strangers - walk up and attempt to finger my ass, because it was exposed. They were uninvited and I didn’t like it. I am a top. So, I asked them to stop.

My question is this - by wearing a jock, is it a nonverbal communication to the room that says “go ahead, my ass is available!” Or should I wear a wrist band?

I am really turned on by the leather scene and as I’ve gotten older my interest has really increased. Is there some protocol that I am unaware of?

Thanks