Looking for advice—I really enjoy BDSM (chastity, CMNM, spanking, bondage, edging, tighty-whities) and am unsure how to balance it. I’m in the process of dating and trying to find a life partner, but a bit discouraged. I know the type of person I’m looking for both BDSM wise and non-BDSM wise, and I’m unsure how to find the right person. Similarly, I feel like these kinks are easy to get down a rabbit hole of 24/7 kink, and I’m unsure of how much is right—part of me would love a 24/7 kink arrangement, part of me wants something more vanilla. Anyone have any advice or clarity? I know this is confusingly written and unclear—this is exactly why I need guidance on how to make BDSM and kink work in a long term relationship. Thanks!