I am a self-locked sub who is looking for a possible D/s or Master/slave relationship that craves for an ideally romantic one. I have been meeting people online yet the experience so far isn’t good and there are so many scams around. I always curious and feel like I have to go to a physical event but I never joined any event/festival for kink. I don’t know if it’s a good idea to go alone and what to expect.

I also realized that it seems to be a pretty leather-focused event but I don’t own any leather gear or much kinky clothing. I probably own one sleeveless rubber shirt and that’s all. Would it be weird if I’m not wearing something that really fit the “dress code” and just wear normal outfit? I feel so reluctant to be there seeing everyone in their full gear but me with nothing and feeling so out of place and not belong there. Would be great to hear some advice and perhaps meeting someone interested to go as well. 😮‍💨