Asked this elsewhere and the community got bitchy pretty fast, so trying here instead.

My gay profiles are all very upfront that I am submissive and into BDSM. Most even state “want a Man that doesn’t take no for an answer.”

Whenever I meet random guys from online, I have stripped naked, gotten on my knees, and reached for their pants within 30 seconds of meeting. Always willing to suck and swallow. However, if they tell me to get up and bend over, I refuse. Not because I don’t want to be fucked, but because I want them to be dominant and brutally aggressive. Prefer being slapped around and taken by force.

Am I being a cocktease, and should just put out for vanilla sex? Or keep holding out for the ones that won’t take no for an answer? Is there a better way to offer myself as rape bait?