For many women, they are not currently in a relationship but still want to enjoy the pleasure of fucking multiple men. You'll take the same steps to arrange a gangbang as you would in a relationship with some considerations in mind.

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Keep your groups small

If you are worried about the safety aspect then keep your groups small with 3 - 5 guys in attendance. That's not to say you can't do a large group but you'll spend more time vetting them to make sure they can all play well. And if you want large groups, consider scattering their arrival. Like the second group of 5 shows up 1.5 hours after the first and the third shows up 1.5 hours after that but by then the first group is gone and so on.

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Invite a safety friend

Bring a friend that can watch over your safety while you're having fun. If you do not have a friend that you can call, considering see if there are any cuckolds in the area that could participate by watching and keeping an eye on you. Cuckolds are great because they are going to want to watch anyway so might was well kill two birds, one stone.

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Fuck your friends

Chances are you are friends with a man, who if given the chance, would take you up on the offer to share you with his friends. Be a bit flirtatious, strategically place your hands on their thighs, rub up against them. Mind you, this should all be done with consent! It works both ways - so ask if you can do those things first. Nothing is sexier than a woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to ask for it.

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Pick a familiar location

When choosing a place to host, look for hotels that are close to home so you feel comfortable leaving and going home at any time. Remember that you are the guest of honor and if you want a hotel that is just down the road from where you live, pick it. It's a nice temporary escape from your own bed. Be sure to leave a note in your home outlining the details of where you'll be and for how long just in case someone needs to find you. Hopefully this never has to be used but precautions should be taken should anything go south.

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Stick to your guns

If you set rules and the guys do not follow, do not go through with anything. Walk away. If someone breaks a rule once, chances are they will break it again. Because you are doing this alone your safety is the top thing in mind. So yes, if he didn't get the test in time not sorry that he's out. It may make your group smaller but your health is not a game or something to be toyed with even if he's nice. There are plenty of other men who would happily do everything you ask with no issue. Do not take the risk by compromising - you are the guest of honor - you do not have to compromise. No is No. And when you tell them, be unapologetic. They are adults who knew the rules and you are not sorry for enforcing them.

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Safe Words and Actions

You are going to have your hands and likely mouth full so make sure there is a way in addition to a safe word that you can use to show that you no longer want to play. And pick one of the guys in the group to be down with helping you out if he sees you take the action too because you can't say the words. This is where that safety friend comes in handy but if you can't find one just make sure that the action is clearly like tapping out or both hands in the air (assuming they are not otherwise occupied or unavailable). Make sure who ever you pick you can trust for him to snap out of the lust and help you. They cannot play with you again if you have a bad time so remind him that it's in his/their best interest if they want to be invited back.

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Take care of everything

While it is a lot of work, make sure that every last detail is planned and accounted. If you're allowing food and drinks, its items you ordered and purchased. You've instructed the men on what they can and cannot bring with them so there are no surprises. If any toys are involved, you've purchased and brought them. Don't forget about any condoms, lube, and spermicide that you may need. Keep those boxes unopened until the men arrive so there is no concern of someone sabotaging the safety of the event.

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Participation requires help

It may seems wrong or uneasy, but there are liabilities that are incurred in throwing the event. Once you have established a location, if anything refreshments are provided, toys and accessories that will be available, etc. identify that total liabilities so they may be shared equally among the participants. Mind you, you may already own the toys and accessories so that is not included in your repeat events but maintenance of the toys (toy cleaner) can be. Make sure it's known to participate they need to help support the coordination of the event and what's expected and how they can do that.

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Single ladies, what are other things that you keep in mind while planning? Feel free to ask questions and comment!