Disclaimer: So this is mostly for NSFW scripts, but some of these tips may be useful for SFW scripts as well.

Update: Here's a guide for writing trans friendly scripts written by u/kittytoy85, check it out too!

Personally, as a nonbinary voice actor, I've had a hard time finding scripts that are for nonbinary people. Or even just A4 type scripts that allow the speaker to be any gender.

I'd like to see more trans scripts. But also more of the following:

More scripts that aren't typical. NB amab folks who are masc, NB afab folks who are fem. Trans men who like their bits and their chest, trans women who like their dicks and consider themselves "non-op."

Every variation under the sun please. There is no one way to be trans. And as it is there are barely any trans scripts right now.

I encourage cis folks to write trans scripts, ask for feedback, get told off. Fix the script.

I know folks want binary and cis stuff because it garners more views. But it's also good to do stuff that isn't in the mainstream. I've seen people do it, and I absolutely love it.

Hell, it's totally possible to even adapt scripts with very little hassle, if they aren't overly gendered.

And if you only change small sections, you barely need to re-record scripts, just slot in the different parts and boom, audio for another gender.

Not to say that we shouldn't write scripts for specific genders. Just that it is possible to make them interchangeable. It is possible to take on script and include a bunch of folks of different genders. And thus, make more people feel seen and included. Which equals more listeners, and more comments! (who doesn't love more comments?)

I'm doing my darndest to write trans friendly or specific scripts. And I hope y'all will too!

Part 1: How I learned to stop worrying and love the tags

Tags are an inherent part of scripts and audios. I personally make tags before starting to write, that way it's like an outline. But, what happens when you have to describe an audio that is for multiple listeners of different genders? How do you tag? How do you write something that isn't going to be a mess?

All of it is covered in this section.

Make it modular. Write a main section, and then swap out things like "Good boy" for "Good Girl," of course this will be difficult if one wishes to make audios for nonbinary people. BUT, some nonbinary people don't mind those sorts of pet names. So keep that in mind, you've got a diverse audience.

Things to keep in mind:

1. When it comes to modular scriptwriting, remember, it's easier to swap out small sections that are gendered. Limit it to say two or maybe three sections if you're feeling adventurous. Limiting things within certain genital descriptions can also help.
2. Modular writing allows the VA to record most of the audio, while only re-recording small parts. Of course you can be more ambitious and swap out multiple lines if you wish. Just make sure the VA knows which lines are for which gender.
3. When starting the modular script, be aware that aiming for an A4A type script may be easier to adapt later. If you're writing an NSFW script, keep in mind the characters genitals and the sex acts you wish to include. Then you can retroactively figure out which gendered terms you'd like to add in.
4. Be aware that trans listeners may have certain types of dysphoria involving their genitals. No matter what you write, it is important to add notes in the description detailing what gendered terms are used (pussy, penis, boy, girl, etc.).
5. Ask for feedback from trans people if you want to make sure your audio is trans friendly. And remember, it is possible for trans folks to disagree. Just do the best you can to listen and fix any major errors.

The advantage to using a modular style, is that you can turn one gender script into another. So say if you wrote an A4M script with the M listener having a penis. You could then turn that into a 4TF or 4NB script. With minor tweaks you could add mentions of breasts if you wish. But only if you write it as a 4A style script. If not, it will be a pain to adapt.

Part 2: Listen to me baby, uh huh uh huh.

While it is possible to write in a non-modular way. The downside is you'll only have one script. And a non-modular script can be more complex to write. However it also adds more depth you can't get in a modular style script.

This section is all about how to write for trans listeners, and how to write in a non-modular way.

Things to keep in mind:

1. Know your audience. If you already know a trans person, congrats, you know one trans person. You can probably find terminology by searching "trans man/woman/nonbinary terms for genitals." If that fails, ask people, preferably on social media/another subreddit and be clear why you're asking; as it may set off red flags. Just don't do it in real life, not unless you're looking to get cussed out. Some examples of alternative terms include, (for TF) "girlcock, girldick, strapless, hen, and clit." (for TM) "mancave, fronthole, dick, peen, chesticles (for breasts)."
2. You can always just use anatomical terms for genitals, or slang. Just make sure you tag it as such, as some people prefer not to have their parts referred to like that.
3. When writing a listener character, try not to generalize about their transition. In fact, it may be easier to just not talk about it at all. Though, complimenting certain body characteristics that change from hormones or surgery (top surgery for TM or orchiectomy for TF) may be relevant if it's a comfort audio. You could also add compliments and add a "gender euphoria" tag. In general though, probably best to avoid genitals; talking about hormone effects may be your best bet. Do remember to add that to the description notes though!
4. I encourage you to stick to writing audios that don't assume the listener's transition status, as it will be far more inclusive, and far less likely to upset. Not everything is about transition. A lot of the time trans folks like myself don't even think about it. We just are trans, we live as we are. Sometimes it's nice to just press play on an audio and listen to someone whispering sweet nothings into our ear.
5. When in doubt about a decision in your script. Add it to the description so people know what's in there. And don't hesitate to ask for feedback, whether on reddit or on NSFW twitter where trans scriptwriters are. Best to ask a trans scriptwriter though, as many people may have no clue about what ASMR scripts are or how to properly write one for trans folk.

Part 3: Guy moans, girl moans, and all the moans inbetween.

If you want to allow any performer to use your script, all you need to do is write A4 scripts, just make sure to tag genitals mentioned as well as any gendered terms if you add them.

If you want to write a script for a trans performer of a specific gender, then it's going to be harder to write something specific and have someone be willing to perform it. So it may be best to allow for alterations, and talk with the performer.

Alternatively, leave out a lot of transition related discussion, gloss over details. If you absolutely need to include discussions of transition, make sure you know what hormones do. Do your research, find info about HRT through WPATH or a doctor's website that is reliable.

You don't want your trans girl character to shoot a massive wad of cum if she's 2 years on hormones; it's just not realistic (unless it's set in a universe that isn't ours). Conversely, you wouldn't want to talk about your trans guy character still having periods regularly if he's been on HRT for a long while.

Some tips:

1. Write the script A4 style. If you have a specific gender in mind, add in gendered terms and references.
2. Spend time in trans subreddits and talk with people. Read posts. Get to know them. Make friends with other trans VAs and scriptwriters. There are a lot of options for getting info. Heck, use google first, then ask someone!
3. It's not always about the experience of being trans in the way you'd think. It's about the experiences you don't see that shape trans folks. Upbringing, coming out, first partner while being out as trans, bad breakups after coming out, first experience of gender euphoria, and a regression to the boring realization that we are just like anyone else; except when people don't see us that way of course.
4. Read scripts by trans people. You may learn a few things from them.
5. Don't rely on stereotypes from media you watch. This includes "reality TV" and even interviews. Rely more on first hand written experiences from trans people: articles, autobiographies, and posts online. Do not limit yourself to just one source, and take notes if you wish.
6. Unless the script is specifically a comfort audio for someone who experienced transphobia, try not to add it. It just ends up pulling the listener out and possibly upsetting them. It's a touchy topic.
7. Remember that trans folks may not be typical, there is no one type of trans person. Therefore you could write a script about a trans guy having a breeding kink. Or a trans woman being a dom-top. But try not to write yourself into a situation where that is the only script you make. Especially since it can lead to fetishization of trans people, due to people assuming that we are all the same. So write things that are also in line with "normative" trans experiences, such as genital dysphoria, and trans people getting euphoria from being stereotypically male/female in their actions.

Conclusion

This is just a starter guide I cobbled together hastily really early in the AM. but I hope it's enough info to convince you it is in fact possible to write scripts for trans VAs and trans listeners.

If there is one thing I have consistently emphasized in this, it's this:

There are a lot of folks who are trans and write scripts who would be willing to answer questions and give feedback. Utilize that. A lot of folks may think "cis people can't write scripts." But I personally disagree. I think it's important that everyone is given a chance, and that writers make sure to get proper feedback. We need more trans scripts in the ASMR audio community. It would be an absolute boon to have more people writing them.

At bare minimum I'd like to see more A4 stuff with genital tags for performers. Especially scripts where the writer clarifies which types of modifications can be made to the script. One small sidenote, if a script can be for F or M, maybe consider tagging it A4 instead. Nonbinary folks will thank you.

I very much appreciate you reading all of this. If there are any typos or errors I'll have to edit it when I wake up.

-Wisp