I just wrote something about a guy who is uncertain about how to approach someone he likes and freezes up, and it really made me think about how this happens and how some people are good at it and some aren't. I've never done something like that in my life, and I really had to think to put these things into words. After finishing it, I still have all these questions and I thought I'd pose them to you.

So what about you? When did you figure this stuff out? Did you practice, did you imagine it, were you nervous, was it new to you when you first did it? Are you slowly figuring it out or have you been twirling the opposite (or same, as the case may be) sex around your finger since you were three apples tall? Did it ever go spectacularly right/wrong?