Hi. I'm a divorced, well established Black woman who is nerdy. I chose full retirement in my late 50s to have more time to just enjoy life.

I want to meet a mature single man, the closer to my age the better. (My son is 28. Near his age or younger is an absolute no!) I seek a gentleman who wants a long term relationship with a strong mature woman that includes:

-Hugs -Cuddles -Holding hands -Text messages that make us both smile -Date nights out/romantic evenings in -Voice calls/vid chats that make you sigh in comfort or shiver with need

Things I want: -Your time, attention and devotion -your pinned between me and the nearest wall as I welcome you home from work -your head pillowed on my lap while I play in your hair and tell you what I've planned for our evening -You sitting in a chair with me on your lap, as I whisper in your ear, tease you and make you wait -Your eyes to light up when I walk in a room, knowing my eyes and smiles are just for you -old fashion courtesy/manners; open minded thinking and intellect -a best friend that I cannot keep my hands off

Things you want: -Attention from a real woman who will genuinely care for you -Praise when you've done well, encouragement after a rough day, respectful guidance or correction if needed -A nurturing supportive presence in your life -Someone who knows what she wants and what she doesn't, and will tell you so you don't have to guess -A woman who will respect the man you are in the world and the good boy you are just for her -someone not interested in degrading you or causing any real pain/harm -someone resilient who understands that anything meaningful takes hard work, commitment, good communication, room to mess up, own it, and forgive it (for real) to keep things moving forward

Things I need: -someone unattached (emotionally and legally) who wants to be monogamous -someone masculine (doesn't mean you must be muscular) -someone well established in life who is not intimidated by a strong, intelligent, financially independent woman -someone comfortable with interracial dating (not someone who fetishizes it) -someone local to me or able to travel to me often (I have a health situation that makes it hard for me to travel solo. Happy to say more if we connect and see potential.) -someone with a sense of humor -someone who wants an actual relationship, not a dispenser of sexual acts -someone who wants to interact in-person, NOT online only

Things you need: This is for you to say, should you decide to message me. We can discuss kinks and limits in detail then.

https://imgur.com/a/IxvTIm7

What 60 looks like https://imgur.com/pfb3oZ6.jpg