(Please read this ad from start to finish before messaging. I now have the omicron vaccine!)

Hello there! I'm looking for a woman who can bring me out of my shell, and help me improve my confidence. I have no experience at all with anyone (even dating), so taking things slow is likely the best course of action. I'm looking for women in their 20's up to late 30's, who live in the northeast US (New England area).​ Due to negative experiences from when I was younger, I'm scared around women, and I'm looking to overcome that fear with positive experiences. ​Not looking for a mistress, I'm looking for a friend with benefits to try a few dates, who can help improve my confidence, and maybe it might become something more.

I stand at 5' 10" and weigh around 180. Though I have a little bit of fat still left, I'm gradually working to get rid of it. I play videogames quite a bit, but I've also gotten into oil painting, a bit of gardening, and mountain biking. (I'm also told I'm quite good at giving shoulder and back massages!) Also, please put the word "raspberries" somewhere in your first message, so I know you're a real person and read my ad. I am looking to talk to people on here first before adding them elsewhere.

If things lead to sex: I consider myself a submissive, or otherwise a bottom, hoping to have my virginity taken by a woman with a strapon. I'm not entirely sure if I want a relationship as well, though I'm hoping to find out for myself. Cat ears and cosplay are also a big plus!

I'll need a woman who's willing to host, since options are limited for fun in my city. (Really, I asked Google to find something fun to do, and they pointed me to a textile museum and a quilt museum...) I do not have a car, but I live close to the train station in Lowell, so I CAN meet up in Boston by rail. It is also possible for me to take the railroad out to Boston, and then to Springfield or Salem, and a number of other outlying towns as well, but this can take some time. Basically, if you have a rail station nearby, I could use the MBTA commuter rail to head out to your city or town. Otherwise, I'll need you to drive to my place, whether to visit, meet me somewhere public, or to bring me back to your place, in which case I'll pay for the gas money, but only if I see you in person. For the first encounter, I'd like to meet somewhere public for a date, to get to know you better, since I'm nervous around women.

Summary

Interested: Strapons, cat ears, cosplay, can do a few chores and give massages

Hard limits: Chastity, cuckolding, excessive pain, politics (of ANY kind, this isn't what I'm here for). I also intend to keep my body and face completely shaved, and kindly ask the same of my partner. No findoms, please stop asking.

Soft limits: Foot stuff, though I feel MAYBE I could be convinced given the right elements.

What I can provide: This is a tricky one. I'm hoping to find out someday, but I like to think I'm good for massages, snuggles, someone to talk to, go to the bar with, or a shoulder to cry on. I like to consider myself a compassionate sort. I could also make an oil painting to give to you, but be advised I only paint landscapes for now, not buildings or people.

If you're wondering why my post history only consists of ads, it's because I tend to be shy with social media; I like it better when people get to know me by actually talking to me, rather than going off a post history and drawing their own conclusions ahead of time. The things I've mentioned I like should help get us started.

Want to know more about me? Talk to me. c: When I show you my picture, I will verify by holding up a piece of paper with both my username and yours written on it. I will also request the same of you. When you are ready, I will also need you to be willing to verify who you are with a brief video call.