Have you ever considered what it'd be like to have a tall, muscular man tightly bound, gagged, and writhing at your feet? Perhaps you'd sit there sipping a glass of wine, dressed in whatever makes you feel sexy and domme-iest, just soaking in the pleasure of your poor submissive's plight. Maybe you'd dig a heel into his back to remind him that you're still there and watching him struggle. Maybe you'd be controlling any number of vibrating devices placed on or in him. Maybe you'd whisper the terrible, terrible things you're going to do to him as soon as the glass is empty.

And what would those things be? Perhaps the poor thing would be tied over a table, squatter's ass out, while you ready it for your strapon with your hand or a flogger. Perhaps you'd tie him to a chair and put a blindfold over his eyes, so he can't behold your beauty while you apply nipple clamps and your mind-melting edging techniques. Perhaps you'd tie him spread-eagle to a bed and sit on his face, making him worship your ass and pussy until you decided he'd done well enough to be allowed to pleasure you further. Perhaps a hundred other things involving ropes and gags, whips and chains, strapons and vibes.

If this is something you've ever found yourself wondering, or are now wishing you'd wondered it: woo boy - do I have a submissive for you :)

Me (The Submissive in question)

Well hello there, I'm 28m with a fairly demanding, high-powered job that requires me to make a lot of decisions and get yelled at by a lot of people (and not the fun, sexy kind of yelling), which leaves a man wishing to relinquish all control to a beautiful, trusted domme. Beyond the kink, I write and read a lot, play a plethora of video games, and like to spend time hanging out with my dogs.

Physically, I'm 6'2", current semi-pro volleyball player (think more muscular Steph Curry, or less ripped Ronaldo), brown-hair|green-eyed white fella that tans really well. Generally clean-shaven or a little bit of stubble. Been squatting small elephants for years now, and have the (highly-peggable) ass to prove it ;)

Kinkwise (kinklist): I'm a total ropebunny. Tie me up any way and every way. As long as the restraints are secure and the gags are tight, I'm game. Pegging, edging, roleplay, D/S, teasing, punishment, toyplay, JOI, worship are all other big kinks for me - though bondage is first and foremost.

Limits: chastity/sissification/cuckolding (no hate and all love to those into that, I'm happy with my masculinity and prefer to have it in play rather than locked away). Toiletplay/ageplay/blood/petplay/forced-bi.

Other than those couple limits, I'm into pretty much anything BDSM-tangential and I'd be happy to discuss things you're into, because chances are I'd be down :P

FYI: recently out of a longterm relationship, so taking time to breathe and figure out what I want next. However I'm quite sure I want to be used and abused

You (the Domme in question)

Hopefully the thought of tying me up and having your way with me is as appealing to you as it is to me. Trust, of course, is key to any good BDSM play, and I hope we can get to know each other a bit and establish that trust so that when the whips and chains come out, that sting that much better.

Physical attraction is huge imo (for both parties), but beautiful women come in all shapes and sizes as far as I'm concerned (Trans ladies this includes you too ;) ). Tall or short, ripped or curvy, white or black; as long as the attraction is there I could care less. That said, I do find myself most attracted to people who stay active and fit, but that's not a hard and fast rule. 21 is preferred, I find it's just easier and more socially acceptable to meet up for a drink, younger or older than me makes no difference, so no real age limit as long as everyone's 18 ! I do have to say that I'm a sucker for the classical domme look - so if you enjoy wearing lingerie, tall heels, or leather and latex, then you'll likely find me even greater putty in your hands.

Another thing(and I don't mean to come off rude here), I'd love to buy you dinner and a drink if we meet up, or buy a toy for you or me or somesuch, but I'm hoping for a mutually pleasurable, fun encounter; which the Findom type of relationship (this is just for me personally, go get that bread ladies!) takes the wind out of my sails for trusting that a potential partner is enjoying themselves. If you're going to ask for a tribute to speak with you, I'm afraid we likely won't work out.

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I'm located in the mid-atlantic part of the USA (Philly, Baltimore, DC, and NYC are all easily reachable), and am looking for someone that would eventually want to play in-person - which doesn't mean people from outside the region aren't welcome! I travel semi-frequently and I'm sure we could work it out if we vibe well enough.

If any part of this post appealed to you, please feel free to send me a message describing yourself, your age, location, what kinks you're into, and - if you're feeling frisky - tell me which of the above scenarios you'd most like to act out. Or feel free to invent your own! Also happy to exchange verifications!