Hey there! Are you tired of no-effort posts and messages making demands, calling you Mistress, Mommy, Goddess, etc, while giving nothing back and not even trying to get to know you? Of course you are! That’s why you clicked on this post. You knew it was going to be different and you were right.

I will make no demands! Because why would a sub demand anything anyway? I’d like to give you a look into who I am though and maybe you’ll see someone you think might be a good match for you. That’s the point of all this, right?

Professionals, pay-to-play, etc, I appreciate the hustle, ladies, I truly do. However, that's not what I'm looking for. Best of luck to you though!

Who Am I?

For starters, I’m a submissive guy in Colorado, near Denver. There are a couple of photos here and here. I’m into fitness, the outdoors, animals, cocktails, and memes. I’m definitely a bit on the nerdy side. I have a full-time job, live alone, and have a pretty flexible schedule and availability, if you get my drift. I have considerable experience in the kink lifestyle, so I’m not new to being a sub. There are some additional details in the about me post but I’ll try to cover some of it here so you don’t have to switch screens.

Speaking of being a sub… I’m definitely not a brat but I do like a lot of attention and can be somewhat needy or clingy, especially in the beginning. I enjoy interacting with my Domme, including about more than just the kink side of life. I strive to make my Domme proud of me and to make sure she comes (cums) first. I want to be able to laugh and have fun even if play may not work out every time.

I can be an over-communicator, can you tell? I like being able to tell my Domme if I’m feeling especially horny, anxious, submissive, happy, sad, nervous, etc. This helps get me more into the submissive space, especially if my Domme can accommodate and respond to my thoughts. I'm a huge fan of dirty talk/texts through the day. I appreciate when my she knows me well and knows when/how to push my limits but also what’s too much. She basically knows what I need better than I do.

Kinky Stuff

Did your eyes go here first? I love that your mind is in the gutter.

As far as kinks go, I have a short list in the about me post. However, orgasm control / denial are top for me. I find being denied helps me really get into the mental state and be a lovely, desperate, pliable, little sub for my Domme.

I'm always open and receptive to having a discussion about specific kinks or ideas!

About You

Probably around ages 30-55 (but I'm flexible). You're communicative, open minded, and enjoy having fun as well as being kinky. You really care about getting to know your sub and making them happy so that they can make you happy. Consent and privacy are also top of mind for you when it comes to the D/s lifestyle.

You love controlling your sub and turning them into a desperate puddle of horniness so that they'll do anything for you. You're a huge fan of chastity as well as orgasm control/denial. Even better if you like having fun and tormenting your sub in semi-public (but discreet) situations.

What kind of Domme would be a good fit for me? Probably more of a gentle Domme. Pain does nothing for me but I can endure some for my Domme. I’m looking for someone who wants to get to know me and who has time for a slightly needy sub. Ideally this would end up being something long-term like an actual relationship, especially if we’re both local.

I’d love to hear more about you and your ideal dynamic if you decide to reach out! Let’s be honest, this is a M4F post so it isn’t like I’ll be receiving a ton of messages. Shoot your shot! Reddit Chat is terrible so, instead, send me a message!