Hi, thanks for taking the time to read my post! I hope its not too long, but I'm really hoping to find a deep connection. I have always had a hopeless romantic nature, having a committed relationship with the right woman is my dream in life. I have wanted to be submissive in my future relationship since a young age - it's very much engrained into my personality despite the fact that I am a normal confident/assertive guy in public. Recently I have found a side of me that could try being more sexually dominant if my partner wanted that, but I would be 100% content with being submissive otherwise. I crave a maternal, protective, and controlling personality in my future partner; my brain interprets these behaviors as love. The traits I look for are generally: compassion, intelligence, playfulness, outgoing/talkative, assertive, and natural leadership traits.

I am self-employed in a biotech industry, and I am currently enrolled in school to finish my degree. I could see myself as more of a househusband if my partner liked that, although I also enjoy my career so its hard to say one way or another. I am the type to simp and adore my partner, and I would love it if I found someone who enjoyed that about me. I love playing basketball and I also enjoy singing and piano as hobbies. I am a christian, and it's a big part of my life, but I am not the toxic kind. I try to live by the golden rule and treat others with love and respect.

I don't want to prioritize kinks since I am looking for a real connection, and I think I would prefer to wait on starting any serious D/s dynamic until we get to know eachother better. That said, I have learned kink compatibility is important and I want to make sure we are a good match. My preferences could be explained as: they are focused on having a partner with a dominant personality, leadership & maternal personality traits, and preferably someone with physical strength or an aggressive or "smothering" personality. Its a dream of mine if my partner was able to push me around effectively. I think I have a love kink, meaning It turns me on if my partner enjoys doing things that she knows make me fall more hopelessly in love with her. I really want a "normal" romantic relationship, however the idea of a 24/7 dynamic (so that you always have the final say) also seems very appealing. Just to name a few kinks that resonate with me in order of preference: MDLB, behavioral modification & punishment, physical aggression towards me, CNC, ANR, mental domination and teasing, playful humiliation, and some age play (but ageplay isnt a dealbreaker for me). It's also worthy of mention that I have an adoration for women with feminine voices. I will also note that when I took the kink test my highest score was "brat", but I dont see it as something that would cause problems in a relationship since I also want to be obedient; and in serious matters I can be a mature adult. I just have a (repressed) playful brat side that comes out when I get comfortable around someone. I also really like the idea of being trained to not be a brat.

The type of personality I think I would match with is someone with more of an "alpha" personality who likes to lead and be in charge. I would like someone who enjoys playfully putting me in my place on a regular basis. Simple actions that make me feel like im not in control, like you telling me what to do, or grabbing me by the hand and leading me somewhere are all amazing. I would prefer the dynamic to extend beyond the bedroom, but to me that includes me serving and accommodating you even if you dont feel like being particularly dominant on a particular day. I am curious about experiencing a total power exchange dynamic, but I have never experienced anything remotely close to that before.

Physically, I am 6'0", 185lbs, white, athletic, green eyes, white, with (very) dark blonde hair that lightens up if I get a lot of sun. I have been told I am attractive, but you be the judge. I work out 3-4 times  a week and play intense basketball so I stay in good shape. My type (physically) could be described as a woman who takes care of herself, is confidently feminine, and also strong mentally & physically. I used to do combat sports and definitely have a weakness for women who train in some kind of martial art, or just a physically strong woman. A woman being tall tends to lend itself to this aspect, but its not required. Even if this physical description doesn't fit you exactly I still hope you will reach out if we seem to match on an emotional and mental level.

I'm praying my person is out there somewhere and finds this post. If you are interested in getting to know eachother please feel free to message me, I enjoy chatting and voice/video calling when you feel comfortable with that :) Thank you for reading!