Are you a dominant woman in Vancouver who is looking for someone to submit to you? Someone who will put your desires and pleasure first? If so, I would like to humbly introduce myself.

I am looking for a Domme (age 24-36) and ideally a long term relationship with sweet, but firm Domme in Vancouver. Someone who is caring but also knows what she wants and takes control to get it. I'm looking for someone to submit to, to give up control to and someone who's pleasure and desires I can put above my own. I like to make my partner happy and am looking for someone to extend that into a D/s dynamic with.

A bit about me, 33m with an established professional career designing and building things. I regularly work out and generally have my life in order. Vanilla interests include: skiing, hiking, kayaking, camping, language learning, travelling, cinema and reading. I’m a bit of a nerd/geek, so someone who can match that energy would be ideal. Average height, masculine appearance, with a beard and blue eyes. I generally present as pretty masculine and dominant in the wider world, so things would probably work best if you are the type of Domme that finds it exciting to have the kind of guy you'd never know is submissive all under your control behind closed doors. Been known to make the occasion dad joke or pun. Plenty of experience following orders (message if you want details).

Happy to chat about and elaborate on all of this, but before revealing much more about my identity and vanilla life, I will want to make sure there is a rapport and will respectfully ask for verification.

When it comes to kink, power dynamics and mental domination are what drive my desire to submit. Whips, gags and bondage can be fun, but I find them most appealing as ways to further the power dynamics rather than things to do for their own sake. I’m fairly new to kink, and still figuring out where my limits and interests really are. I would potentially be interested as things develop in exploring chastity, CEI & pegging. Open to both a bedroom only or full time dynamic, at your pleasure. I want to serve and please my Domme, so if you don’t see your kinks listed, don’t hesitate to ask.

Hard Limits: findom, forced bi, sounding, scat, piss, blood

I have a strong preference for an in person relationship with someone local. I wouldn’t entirely rule out online, but there would have to be something special and the possibility of meeting IRL. Please only reply if you are in the lower mainland or occasionally travel to Vancouver. Also, please no pro dommes looking for clients. I'm looking for a real and enduring connection with someone.

If you are interested, please drop me a DM and tell me a bit about yourself. I’m a big believer that there needs to be compatibility outside of the bedroom as well as inside, so please let me know about both your non-kinky and kinky sides when you message me.