Thanks for reading!

I'm a 34-year old sub from the Netherlands, living in The Hague. For many years I've had had very submissive feelings and have wanted to serve a strong, deserving woman, with an ultimate dream of eventually being collared and owned. After a long, long search, however, I've still come up empty-handed. Sometimes I wonder if the Netherlands even has any dominant women!

I think part of the added difficulty for me comes from being autistic, which means forming meaningful connections with people can be very challenging unless they have a lot in common. I refuse to give up on my dream though, and it seems like searching online makes things at least a little bit more manageable. That being said, being autistic also has its perks - I consider myself much more devoted than most, and I'm also an extremely fast learner.

Outside of kink, my interests primarily include gaming, anime, animals, nature and essentially anything related to Japan. I've been there four times and I recommend anyone else to go as well, it's well worth the effort! If you're even the slightest bit nerdy/geeky or also have a love for Japan I think we'd get along very well.

Appearance-wise I am Caucasian (born in the Netherlands), 183cm tall, with black hair and brown eyes. I'm perfectly willing to send a picture of my face but I'd prefer to do that via DM/chat, so just ask for it if you want one.

When it comes to kink, I have quite a lot of interests. But if I had to pick, some of my biggest kinks would include almost all forms of bondage, foot worship, chastity, pegging, light pain, power exchange, domestic servitude, slavery, pet play and feminization/sissification, which is probably my #1. Hard limits are findom, blood/cutting, scat, vomit and sounding.

I consider myself open to a lot, and would love to hear from anybody who's even remotely interested in me. I should mention I'm not interested in exclusively keeping things online - I'd like to meet up irl eventually and work towards a FLR situation, so it would be nice if you live in the same country or elsewhere in Europe. If I meet someone super special I'd be open to making things work even across a longer distance! If any of this sounds good to you, please send a DM or chat message and introduce yourself 🙂

I'd prefer to meet people around my own age, maybe 26-40. If you think we'd be a good match and you're just outside that range however feel free to send a message too!

PS: Ik spreek ook Nederlands, natuurlijk!