Introduction: I want to start off with some things I’m not willing to negotiate on. First is distance. I’ve made exceptions in the past and the time difference is too difficult for most to handle. So unless you’re local or able to visit me within a month don’t message me. I’m also not looking for anything online. Physical touch is my love language and I’m a demisexual so if there is no emotional connection, I have no desire to engage in any play. The last thing I’ll mention is communication. If you’re unable to communicate your thoughts, feelings or desires please move on to the next post. I’m not looking for endless sexting and flirty messages. I want us to have deep conversations about our lives, goals, interests etc. If you’ve read up to this point, I’ll satisfy your curiosity and share a little bit about myself 😉 About Me: I’m a 5’6 African American curvy hopeless romantic. I’m the type to send my partner small gifts just because and celebrate birthdays and anniversaries. I’m also a soft Domme who loves to share in some of my partners hobbies and interests or encourage them to pursue them. Plus I give great hugs and head pats 🤭 Structure and consistency is so important to me so it’s important for my partner to be open and flexible. because I will give instructions that expect to be followed, within reason of course. I’m not here to control every aspect of my partner’s life but there also can’t be two captain of one ship. I’m goofy and down to earth. I’m not one to judge a book by its cover and treat everyone the way I wish to be treated, with dignity and respect. I’m single with no kids and I don’t wish to have any. I consider myself to be non-conventional because there are certain morals and values and I intend to uphold that are not common in these communities. If you want to know what they are feel free to ask. 😊 Vanilla Interests: I’m a huge Anime fan and I love art, food, travel and games. Kink interests: I’m interested in feminization, pegging, bondage, impact play, and face sitting to name a few. Hard Limits: I’m not interested in SCAT, age play, forced bi, cuckold, piss play and anything that causes permanent damage. What I’m looking for: If I’m completely honest I’m looking for something in between TPE and FLR. I’m hoping to find something that will lead to marriage. I want a serious monogamous LTR that’s Vanilla in the streets but kink in the bedroom. If you can relate to anything I’ve posted or your ready for something serious, send me a message with your best pick up line 😋