This post might be long, but if you are after a genuine, intelligent submissive who isn't obsessed with sex or sending dick pics, jerking off and then ghosting you, and who can hold a conversation in most topics, then read on:
First and foremost i will not send you any money. If you are offering any sort of services for money, online or real life, then do not bother messaging me.
I am not on any social media (snapchat, instagram etc...) and will not register on them. I don't mind if you are, but do not expect me to message or follow you on them.
If you are a self proclaimed "goddess", please do not message me.
If you have a child, a partner or any other male submissives, then i'm not interested either.
Currently I live England but i'm originally from central europe and I'm not looking for online only. Unfortunately, my living situation doesn't allow me to do a lot of online tasks for you, or go on webcam, so I'd like to genuinely get to know you and hopefully meet after a while. I would even be willing to relocate for the right person. I've moved between countries and cities often before so i know what it's like. I hold an EU passport and i've been to the USA a couple of times before as well.
And finally: If you ask for my ASL, i will block and report you. If you have to ask for it, it means you haven't read anything i've said. It's both in my post title and my post.
Sorry for the rant but i just want to talk with a genuine person who is after the same things that i am and understands what i'm after.
About me:
Physically i'm 5'7, about 140lbs (170cm, 65kg) skinny/average build with longer dark hair and greenish blue eyes. My job keeps me relatively fit but i don't go to the gym or work out nor am i muscular. I tend to be clean shaven and don't have a lot of body hair, what little i have i absolutely hate. I'm more twinkish/feminine looking and give off a submissive vibe?
Mentally, i have no mental illnesses, but am pretty introverted and shy when it comes to girls. I hate arguing, dramas, and tend to go out of my way to avoid them and also to please others and put their needs before mine. I don't like loud places and loud, obnoxous people. I also don't drink, smoke or do drugs.
I blush and get embarrased easily.
Hobbies wise, i love anything history related, travelling, some gaming, nature, hiking, reading, writing and i'm fluent in two languages. I also consider myself to be romantic, loyal and honest and very affectionate and love all things cute and fem. I don't exactly have any masculine hobbies: i'm scared of heights, and extreme stuff and dislike sports and competing with others.
What i'm looking for:
I'm looking for a long term, monogamous relationship with an exclusively dominant girl or transgirl. I find it extremely hot and appealing when a girl knows what she wants and considers herself and her needs superior to mine. I'm after someone who is specific in what they want and refuse to change or lower their standards and they have a plan and scenario. Someone who is confident and knows themselves. I don't mind if you are inexperienced but you should know what you want and who you are as a person. I know that i prefer to follow than to lead, and want to submit to someone's will. It's all about the psychological and mental aspect of domination and BDSM for me. Words, actions and behaviors are much more of a turn on than the physical stuff. Being in pain and discomfort knowing that it pleases my partner will in turn please me as well.
Do you get turned on by seeing your sub in pain, hear them beg, see them squirm and whimper against their tight restraints while you smile and tease them before inflicting more pain, making them scream or beg? Beating their ass until it's so bruised and red that they can't sit down for days after? Do you enjoy making them cry then cuddling them after and providing care and warmth, then discussing what had happened and why? Tieing someone up then leaving them there or keeping them in restraints all night so that they won't escape while you sleep?
Maybe you just don't care what they like and dislike and do it anyway...
I'm open for all that and a lot more, if it's discussed in depth beforehand.
However my main kinks are chastity, orgasm control, feminisation, crossdressing, pegging, anal stretching, petplay, painplay, bdsm, forced bi... If you want a more feminine sub to dress up in cute clothes, then i'm for you.