Hello, hello! My name is Kida. I am a pansexual switch (leaning more dominant) who is looking for a sub or a sub-leaning switch for a long term relationship, both kinky and romantic.

Requirements

I am looking for only IRL connections within train or driveable distance from Long Island, NY.

Please be 25 to 38 years old.

Please only send DM’s, not chats.

Stats

Fully vaccinated and boosted

Age: 31 years old

Height: 5' 5"

Weight: 224 pounds

Ethnicity: Asian

Location: Long Island, NY

SFW (Games, Crochet, and Treats)

I am a crafter at heart and love making things with my hands, but I particularly enjoy crocheting. I ultimately want to learn how to use a sewing machine and make my own clothes, shoes, fetish gear, whatever item I want some day. I also enjoy playing video games (started The Witcher series) and board games (on the rare chance there are enough people to play). I'm quite passionate about food and drink (gin&tonic is my go to) with some decent skills in the kitchen. I am slowly trying all the places on my "Want to Go'' list, especially those with uncommon but homey traditional meals or fusion spots with unusual flavors that you think would never work but surprisingly do.

NSFW (aka the many ways I'll turn you into a pile of mush until you can't remember your name)

Before we get to the fun part, I just want to be clear that both parties must establish respect and view each other as people first, not as kinky vending machines. I also find that scenes are so much more fun and interesting the more I learn how to tease certain sounds to come out of your mouth or make your body writhe by touching a single spot on your body. The core of my play style is tease and delay/denial with a swirl of sadism mixed in. I then add other elements such as bondage, spanking, whatever else in my toy bag to get the results I want. I am also quite a sexual person, so please be aware that my scenes tend to involve sexual acts. I understand some people like to keep play and sex separate, but that just does not work for me. I'd like to discuss more specific fetishes, kinks, and hard limits through DM's. Please do message me if any of this interests you, but keep it respectful! Honorifics are earned, so only address me as Kida and tell me your name until directed otherwise. Thank you, and hope to hear from you soon.

P.S.

I understand that physical attraction isn't something we control and must be considered when entering a relationship where lots of nudity is involved. I prefer we chat a bit and then exchange SFW body pics early-ish in the conversation. If we click, then great! If not, then I hope we can either be friends or wish each other well in finding our ideal partners.

P.S.S.

Put "May I have some more?" as the title of your message and include what my drink of choice is in your first sentence.