Hello!

My name is Ben, im 24 years old and I'm from Alberta, Canada. I'm white, 6'3" and 180lbs; Im definitely on the skinny side.

Apologies for the lazy formatting, I promise the material is all there.

About me

I recently finished my Bachelors degree in Physics and I do part-time office work for a local business. I live with roommates, spend most of my free time playing PC games online with my friends (first competitive shooters, then WoW, now back to shooters). Outside of video games, I enjoy hikes, pool, I absolutely love good cuisine and adore all kinds of animals (especially dogs and parrots). I play piano and I'm learning guitar, but dont practice them nearly enough anymore. I seem to be able to pick up new skills quickly, and I can sometimes be very awkward in person. I show my affection very physically through cuddles, kisses, playing with your hair, scratching your head, massages, etc..

What I'm after

I'm brand new to full d/s relationships and still learning exactly what I want. I want to be loyal and submit to someone truly special. I'm not at all a brat. I want that person to truly enjoy using me for their pleasure, while simultaneously rewarding me for my unwavering obedience as their toy. I love the idea of tasks, both NSFW and mundane, granted that we are respectful of each others schedules and interests. I have a high sex drive, but I'm sure it can be tamed by the right person if need be (:

I'm ideally looking for something long-term that could eventually transition to in person; With my graduation I'm not sure where I'll end up. However, since I'm new to full d/s relationships, I also don't mind short term so I can learn more and improve as a sub!

Regardless, a strong connection is the most important thing for me. I'm very picky about who I get close to in my life. I let my gut decide and I trust it very closely, because it rarely lets me down. Im honored to say that I believe the people closest to me are truly amazing, and I'm lucky to have them. They're all compassionate, honest, and loyal people and I try my hardest to uphold the same standard. I expect anyone who wants to be close with me to do the same, and in return you will receive an incredibly loyal and honest human.

My NSFW interests

My biggest kink is when I know that you are receiving immense satisfaction by using me. If making me moan fills you with butterflies and gets you all tingly, itll only make me moan louder. There has to be some level of tangible pleasure for me, but it can be delayed as you see fit (i.e. edging). If I ever feel like you're being truly unfair, then I'll talk to you about it! Considering all of this, I think a softer mommy/gentle/pleasure domme is best for me. Someone who isn't afraid to tell me how well I'm doing, how happy I'm making them, to make me feel good, etc..

Furthermore, because of this my kinks are quite varied. A few honorable mentions are: Anal (toys, pegging, fingers, etc), free-use, orgasm control and bondage. There are a LOT I'm not mentioning here, so please feel free to ask! In the bedroom I'm very open minded and love trying new things. You never know: it might end up being something we both love!

I'm aroused by CD & feminization but havent tried it yet. I think it would be the more fun to have someone to hold my hand through that experiment! The idea of long-term fem/sissy makes me quite uncomfortable, though. Nothing against it, I'm a strong ally, I just don't think it's for me.

As for the anal kinks, I have my own toys but am very inexperienced with them as none of my previous partners were interested in this. If you like to train tight holes, I promise you have your work cut out for you.

My limits

For soft limits, I'd come to you when/if I'm ready and suggest them to you. These are strong pain, severe humiliation/degradation, CEI, anything that carries over between several sessions (roughly more than 4 days), be it edging, chastity, fem, etc.

Hard limits are non-negotiable: findom/tributes, piss, blood, scat, age-play, incest, permanent damage/markings, any other illegal stuff.

Messaging me

We're both adults trying to find something real, so let's not skip over anything important:

-Age & location -Please let me know what you'd like me to call you. I get super anxious about saying the wrong name. -A bio like what I've put out here is incredibly important, which should be obvious if you read the post. -Ideally, a SFW photo. I will happily provide one as well.

Thank you!

For anyone who made it through the whole post, I truly appreciate your time. I hope that special someone finds this and decides to message me. I'll be waiting for you ❤