About me: I'm a bit of a homebody but looking to change that a bit more. I like to explore different hobbies but want someone to enjoy them with. I have 2 degrees. I'm 5'10 and 167 pounds, down from 210 from last year. Working on getting toned in the not too distant future. I am lowkey a bit of a know it all but not the condescending type.I'm trying to get out of my comfort zone so I might come off a bit shy. I definitely will show that I care even if you're just a friend. If you ever need advice or to vent I know when to be serious and be a good listener. I'm not a therapist but I'll tell you more than "it really do be that way."

What I can offer: Emotional support and attentiveness to what you're going through. I'm patient and wont hound you when you're busy. I'm willing to compromise without holding it against you in any way. I wont overwhelm you with my problems as that isn't fair to you at all. Unlimited comedy and comfort at almost any hour of the day. Am able to communicate whatever is on my mind so you aren't blindsided. Can talk about literally anything you feel like discussing, even if I have no expertise in that area I'm fine with learning or giving my thoughts on it. I wont be bringing up kinks at any point.I am willing to discuss them with you if that is something you feel like talking about but I don't mind keeping things wholesome and platonic as long as we can. I wont judge whatever you happen to be into.

Kinks: I’m into femdom, but not the ballbusting, super painful stuff. I consider myself a switch because I am comfortable in different roles. Although if you are strictly dominant I wont have a problem with being in one role if we get along. I’m open to trying things that are outside my comfort zone but I do have hard limits and know what I am looking for. I'm more into softer dominant personalities but I don't mind a bit of mean teasing sometimes. Limits: As long as it isn’t illegal or draws blood, piss, scat. Also not into being put in dresses, not judging people who are though I have a few more that can be discussed.

What I’m looking for: Please be around 22-31, might make exceptions for older. Either local to New York or can visit it at least monthly. Someone who’s supportive and just wants to be a team player. If you think you know how to take care of everything as a leader then I don't mind helping on the other end too. Would appreciate someone who is patient because I take a bit of time to open up to new people. I don't like to bother people when they're busy so if you prefer to initiate that's a plus, if you don't mind me messaging though there's no pressure to respond right away. It would help if you have a sense of humor or at least enjoy goofy moments from time to time. A person who wants to enjoy life and make things better for the people you care about. I'm not too judgmental on body types, though I would love to help support you if you want to improve yourself in any way. It's important to stay healthy so if you think you don't have healthy habits then I'm willing to support you on that journey. I wont judge you if you do drugs but please nothing too extreme. Not a requirement but would appreciate someone who has family from the Balkans/Albanian just because we might have more in common that way. Someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously, or if they do they aren't pretentious about it. If you happen to be into gaming that's a big plus so that we have more opportunities to connect with each other, but not a deal breaker.

I'm willing to send pictures but only after a few days or if you have a good idea on how to verify. I don't want to draw it out for too long, I am willing to verify with you I just prioritize personality, not that I don't have physical preferences but I wouldn't consider them too unrealistic .Please share your age and a general idea of where you're from, doesn't have to be too specific. Feel free to start the conversation about literally anything you want or just be ready for me to pick something random because I'm not the best at small talk.