Hello!

I'm fairly inexperienced, nerdy guy in Arlington VA. Only been in one relationship and haven't done too much in the bed room. I'm a sub leaning switch, greatly preferring being a submissive. I love to cuddle and affection is a must. I prefer cats over dogs but love all animals.

Basically I'm looking for one of two things, a mentor type fwb to help me get experience or a relationship. I'll go into detail about both of those.

If you reach out, please be able to host!

If you have any questions feel free to message me!

Relationship:

Basically I want to see where an actual partnership can go, long term and exclusive. cuddling and watching movies together. date nights and just being comfortable around each other eventually. I'm not sure if I want a dynamic outside the bedroom, if so it would probably be a softer dynamic. I'd prefer ages between 22 (out of college) and 30 for this, just need to be in a similar place in life as I am. For this I wouldn't expect to get into the bedroom right away, whatever pace is most comfortable for us.

Movie dates, dinner together, and someday moving in together, the full nine yards. This would not be a short term thing, nor would I want sex and kink to be the only facet of the relationship. Similar interests are a must, if not being willing to try each other's hobbies.

Mentor:

Someone who can help me gain experience in the bedroom, and can just help me practice being in the dating world I guess. This would not need to be exclusive, and while I would still want cuddling, would be more platonic and not romantic. Some I feel safe to explore with, without the need for dates and planning and such. Friendship would still need to be part of this but nothing as series as a relationship. Anyone 18 (out of HS!) and up can apply, but I would prefer an older woman.

This could also be a more fwb experience. Cuddles and movies, going to munches together, more casual dating experience. Just whatever works best for the both of us. While I know this is unlikely, an ff couple is more than welcome to this as well.

About me:

I'm a nerdy and shy guy. Started working on the city over the summer and really coming into my own. I'm into LOTR and DND, Star wars and MTG. I really would love to rewatch stargate with someone. Trying to get into better shape, but dad bad right now. Glasses, beard, white. I think I'm above average but need to lose weight.

Kinks: lingerie/stockings (you), boots, gentle femdom/mommy dom, affection, praise, and anr.

I'm also very curious about pegging and face sitting.

5'10

chubby build with broad shoulders, husky dad bod

trimmed beard

uncut 6 inches

no STIs

4x vaccinated

hope to hear from you soon!