Service and submission doesn’t always have to be behind closed doors. Something as simple as opening a door, adjusting your chair, or ordering and delivering your drink as you instructed. My idea of a D/s relationship doesn’t end in the bedroom.

I’ve always been envious of coworkers who talk about how “their wives make them do xyz” or how “they can’t do xyz cause their wife wouldn’t approve”. Some guys at work call them whipped, others call them even harsher words. I on the other hand am jealous. That isn’t just what a FLR is, but it’s definitely one of the many perks of being in one. I believe in having an equal voice in a relationship regardless of the dynamic, but I do believe women should have the final say.

I’m a 24 y/o male working in a male dominated industry. My career has taken off, but I’m constantly looking to better myself. That’s why I also take online classes on the side. I’ve been told I’m a pretty ambitious and determined person, and part of me wonders if that’s why I enjoy relinquishing control.

My Vanilla Hobbies include: Cooking, DIYing/Projects around the house, coffee houses & breweries, and most of all… traveling.

My Kinks Include: Chastity (as I believe this is one of the ultimate forms of submission), servitude (doing chores/errands that makes her life easier), pegging, CEI, humiliation/degradation, and much much more.

You: Interests both in terms of hobbies and kinks don’t have to be completely aligned. In fact, I’ve always found that having different interests often opens you up to trying new things. With that being said, I believe our views on life, morales, and values should be aligned.

If you think we would be a good match, or even just want to have another friend in the area, don’t hesitate to send me a message!

P.S. I am willing to verify, you should be as well.