Hello everyone, good morning/evening to you all and hope you’re having a lovely day. I’m seeking a lovely girl to date, build a connection, have a laugh/fun and start a long term relationship with. I want someone were we both can be happy, trust and comfortable with each other. So I’m going to be very honest and hope I find the right someone that can accept/love me for me and I will try and be a perfect partner for them. So here goes, I’m a little shy introverted and enjoy acts of intimacy and affection initiated by my female partner (though obviously I so enjoy starting my things as well) so role being reversed in some cases is very appealing to me and makes me happy. So following this thread I’m also wanting to explore gentle femdom/femdom within the relationship. Possibly leading to FLR and down the rabbit hole we’ve gone. I understand most girls/woman aren’t this type person, but I’m trying to find my forever person so I’m being very honest about personal details to find the right person for me.

About me: - Me (for mutual attraction purposes as if you don’t think I’m hot/attraction how you going to make me blush haha): https://imgur.com/a/rRKRueh

• I’m Ben 25 yr old
• I live in Dorset, UK
• My height is 5’10
• I weigh 73kg and look athletic to slim
• I play football for fun
• Have a Degree and Masters in Youth Sport Coaching and Development
• I love long walks in the countryside
• My hobbies are reading and gaming
• Interest in with historical old places
• Have a bland taste in clothes/fashion
• Weird sense of humour (There's Something About Mary to It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia type omg lol)
• Romantic at heart with hugs, kisses and cute stuff cures all :) -Attention and cuddle slut (seriously, I need lots)
• I’m warm, kind, caring and supportive (emotionally and generally)
• I can be quite introverted and more of a homebody
• Always pay for first date or drinks
• I’d be happy to send selfies and pictures. Love a healthy exchange between us when comfortable

Potential Dealbreaker about me: (these are more intimate details about me that I rather you know now and you decide if you’d accept these about me): - Allergic to most animal hair (I love dogs), but most breeds and pets I’m allergic too sorry :( - Still learning to drive (summer test) - Live at home with parents

My Ideal Partner: (this isn’t a checklist I’m ticking off! I’m more about finding right personality and person. This is to help you know what I’m looking for) - Age between 22 and 32 (not dealbreaker) - Lives in UK or can be local enough to see each other soon (prefer Southwest, England) - Willing to meet if things go well - Single and monogamous, looking for serious long term relationship - I don’t have height/weight or appearance preference - I’m happy with both Experienced and Not Experienced (both sfw and nsfw related) - Good at communicating and invest in daily conversation putting in time - Sense of humour (having someone to have fun and laugh with) - Someone honest and is emotional available to be vulnerable and open up when comfortable - Identities as a switch or domme and looking to explore

For Femdom related kink preferences I’d be happy to talk about that in private. Just know I’m not particular into me becoming more feminine as I rather present and be a more masculine submissive x

My Ideal Dynamic: (All up for discussion and finding what’s right for us) - Talk about what we like and hope to explore together. - Dedication and respect for each other. - Romantic dates and nights - Freely showing affection and appreciation, both sfw and nsfw - Protecting each other creating a safe space between us to be vulnerable and taking care of partner - Daily messages, voice messages, voice calls, pictures (sfw as well) and maybe watch film/play games together - Being clear and honest about feelings from every part of the relationship. Way we can understand how to make it work and each other very happy. - Open to exploring a variety of kinks and sharing each others desires.
- Rules/Punishments (agreed upon) - Collaring/ownership aspect (maybe chastity) - Exploring more TPE aspects. Willing to give up more daily control to the right person if they’d desire that.

My previous experience: So that you know I’ve dated a poly partner, experienced being a submissive and lots more. I’ve nothing, but wonderful things to say about my experiences. Only now I’ve realised I’m definitely monogamous and being loyal both romantically, sexually and kink dynamic is quite important and a must for me. So now I’ve dated and single again, looking for monogamy wish me luck x

Thank you so much for reading my post. If you have any interest, please message me and if you could write a paragraph about yourself and why you think we would get along, that would be amazing as genuine replies are much appreciated. High effort and genuine responses just put a big smile on my face. Please respect if I’d like to verify (which I don’t ever ask really) but sometimes do. All the best, Ben x