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I'm a 33-year old sub from the Netherlands, living in The Hague. For many years I've had very submissive feelings which I've wanted the chance to satisfy by serving a deserving mistress to the best of my ability, with an ultimate dream of eventually being collared and owned. After a long, long search, however, I've still come up empty-handed. Sometimes I wonder if the Netherlands even has any dominant women!

I think part of the added difficulty for me comes from being autistic, which means forming meaningful connections with people can be very challenging unless they have a lot in common. I refuse to give up on my dream though, and it seems like searching online makes things at least a little bit more manageable.

Outside of kink, my interests primarily include gaming, anime, animals, nature and essentially anything related to Japan. I've been there three times and I recommend anyone else to go as well, it's well worth the effort! If you're even the slightest bit nerdy/geeky or also have a love for Japan I think we'd get along very well.

Appearance-wise I am Caucasian (born in the Netherlands), 183cm tall, with black hair and brown eyes. I'm perfectly willing to send a picture of my face but I'd prefer to do that via DM/chat, so just ask for it if you want one.

When it comes to kink, my interests go extremely far and wide, and I think it'd be easier to make a list of things I'm not interested in. But if I were forced to pick some of my biggest kinks, I would include almost all forms of bondage, foot worship, chastity, pegging, sissification, light pain, power exchange and slavery. Hard limits are findom, blood/cutting, scat, vomit and sounding.

I consider myself open to a lot, and would love to hear from anybody who's even remotely interested in me. I should mention I'm not interested in exclusively keeping things online - if there's a click I'd ultimately like to move towards meeting irl, so it would be nice if you live in the same country or elsewhere in Europe - though if I meet someone super special I'd be open to making things work even across a longer distance! If any of this sounds good to you, please send a DM or chat message 🙂

I'd prefer to meet people around my own age, maybe 26-40. If you think we'd be a good match and you're just outside that range however feel free to send a message too!

PS: Ik spreek ook Nederlands, natuurlijk!