Hi!

First, the basics: I am 6'1, 220 lbs. Dad-bod. Working on it. Workout 5-6 days per week. Bald (shaved) but dark hair and blue eyes. Attractive. Happy to share pictures.

Separated but not divorced yet. Live alone.

Things I enjoy: Movie buff. Love all kinds. Enjoy talking about them after. Love musicals, be they stage or screen. Love going out to see shows. I read, mostly fantasy, sci-fi and post-apoc. I write some (fiction). Curious? Just ask I'll talk your ear off about it. Consider yourself warned. Enjoy going for walks that I refuse to call hikes. Love weekend driving trips. Have started getting into cooking.

I skew pretty introverted. But once you get me past that initial nervousness I tend to be almost over communicative. I do love me an interesting conversation. Being compassionate and empathetic are important to me. I do my best to be both of those things. Like to think I'm pretty witty.

Love to hear about your day. Love to hear what you're passionate about and what interests you.

What am I looking for? An emotional connection with someone. A relationship of some sort. Not just a session (or a relationship based only on sessions).

Someone I click with as a person first and foremost. It's the emotional aspects of Dom/sub that I am most attracted to. That trust. That feeling of safety,

Worried / tired of being treated as a "kink dispenser" by folks simply looking for a quick wank? Well that isn't what I'm here for. In fact I won't discuss / talk about sex unless you want me to.

Looking for complete and unconditional obedience by the in the 3rd message you send? Not really here for that either. Sorry.

So what am I into kink wise? Devotion, worship, service for starters. I definitely crave that praise but certainly want to earn it. I don't want to just be called your good boy. I want to be your good boy.

Am I totally uninterested in the physical aspects? Hardly. But at the end of the day I want to please you, so my interests will tend to skew towards what makes you happy. I will say that I'm not a masochist. Not into humiliation or degradation either.

On the subject of a FLR: I'm intrigued by the notion. For sure. But I also understand that most aren't interested in that. Am I interested in a "traditional" male led relationship where I only submit in the bedroom? Absolutely not. I would want at least an equal.

I'm attracted to confidence. To a certain level of brashness. Strong women are insanely sexy.

I tend to vibe with women closer to my own age, but I suppose someone younger could surprise me. Physical attraction is a thing, but I don't necessarily have a "type". I will find your wit and intellect far more attractive than anything else.

Wow. That was a lot wasn't it? If any of the above clicked with you even a little I would love to chat and start getting to know you.