I’m a 31-year old successful, career-driven man living in Boston. I’m 6’3, white, athletic, witty, respectful, and about 185 lbs (depending how much ice cream I had the night before). My hobbies include sports, traveling, web3, nature, trading stocks, math, and anything competitive. I am in good shape, and stay active between hitting the gym a few times per week, as well as intramural sports. One of those fast walker types; I walk so fast that I could probably dust off a mile in under 8 minutes. Happy to slow down for you though!

In public, with my friends, at my job and with my family, I am your prototypical Type-A male. I come off as confident, dominant, and in control. While I am always confident and in control, deep down I am certainly not dominant. Despite this, I put on the façade and go about my daily life while secretly hoping to find a woman who can take control, and lead me in life. Maybe that is you?

I take a lot of pride in my career and working hard. I’m in a great position to purchase my first house/condo in the city in the impending year. I am not really the material-type, I prefer experiences over items. Yes, I would still use my old iPhone 4 if the ios continued to update so that I could actually use apps like Reddit. Still a little salty I had to upgrade, if you couldn’t tell 😉. I do enjoy using my discretionary income to travel and see the world, so if you are into that, all the better. I am also just as happy staying in for the night as I am going out, very versatile!

I consider myself to be an attractive, desirable guy in the vanilla dating world. I have no problem maintaining small talk with people and can approach women with ease at bars. I’m a hit at the grocery store with old ladies, as my arms can reach even the highest of applesauce’s for them. If I used my vanilla dating apps to their full potential, I’d be going on a date with a different woman every night of the week. Hard to put my heart into it when the chances of finding what I truly want are so slim!!

Ultimately, I am looking for a woman who enjoys leading in life. One who is smart, charismatic, playful, and enjoys teasing her man. I think I bring a lot to the table, and would hope that you do too. I’ve had both vanilla and D/S based relationships in the past, and the D/S experiences I’ve had are so much more intimate and fulfilling than vanilla can even come close to. To that end, I do have plenty of kinks, interests, and desires, but nothing taboo or illegal. I am open minded, and always down to try something new.

Anyways, this post is getting long enough so I’ll cut it off here. If anything sparked your interest or gave you a tickle of excitement in your stomach, please shoot me a message! I am only interested in women who live in, or within close proximity to, Boston. Happy to chat and get into greater detail, even if you aren’t sure if this is what you truly want. I nailed the writing section on my SAT’s way back in the day, so hopefully 12 years later it gets me somewhere.

Thanks for reading!