Hi, thanks for stopping by.

I'm sorry for the misleading title, but I was so sick of writing generic "I'm a sub looking for a Domme" style headings. Let's hope that at least the outlet for your Domme energy is at least in this post.

I'm a middle aged, white male living in Melbourne, Australia. I've got a wife (yes she knows I'm here) and two young kids. In my spare time I've got plenty of hobbies to indulge. Video games, reading sci-fi/fantasy, watching sport, playing basketball, running, board games with rule books long enough they could be considered short novels, and enjoying a couple of refreshing beers with mates.

Professionally I'm a middle-manager type in the tech industry. Sometimes that has me very busy. Often though I'm twiddling my thumbs between meetings. I love what I do, though it has it's frustrations like any job.

My appearance is very Dad-bod. I shave my head, have a dark neat beard that matches my dark body hair. I'm 6ft tall and solidly built with a beer belly at the front.

I stumbled across kink at puberty and instantly fell in love. Kink has been a part of my life ever since. I'm on here as a sub, and I'm only looking to be a sub/slave but I am primarily a Dom. I've been owned in two TPE dynamics in the past. One was over several years including 1 year of living together. One was over two years purely online. So when I say I am looking to be a slave I do mean it and not just a Dom who wants to try topping from the bottom.

I'm drawn to people who want to get inside my mind. I enjoy psychological play almost more than any other part of kink play.

I'm not setting any limits on what gender I would submit to, but I am more attracted to Femme presenting people. And it makes it easier to wrap me around your finger if you fit that mold.

I enjoy sweetly sadistic, and affectionately patronising types. I'm not a doormat and will happily banter back and forward with you, debating if I really am the slut you claim I am. And I'll enjoy losing that debate every time.

If I seem like someone who might be what you're looking for I'd love to hear from you. I'm happy to answer any questions you have. If I don't seem right I'd still love to hear why. I hate writing these ads because it can feel like screaming into the void. So I'd love feedback to help me refine.

Good luck with your search.