I am looking for a dominant partner for a long-term connection. I'm hoping to find someone local, but I'm open to online as well. Chatting and/or role-playing is also welcome. I wish to be able to add this type of connection back into my life, be able to explore it more, and continue learning.

I am a switch, but do not switch inside a dynamic once it is established. I'm also poly and have a submissive partner right now. I'm 5'9", a little extra around the middle (working on that), brown hair, short beard, and hazel eyes.

Outside of the bedroom, I enjoy gaming of all kinds, hockey, movies, reading, traveling, and just hanging out in good company. I drink socially and smoke a cigar a couple of times a year. I am pet free and live on my own. I am a veteran and current EMT. I do work full-time, but I can text throughout most of the day.

Kinkwise, I'm very open-minded and into most things. I have been in the lifestyle for about 14 years to various degrees of activity, but I am looking to dive back into the deep end.

My favorite kinks are bondage, rope, puppy play, humiliation, chastity, rough body play, power exchange, toys, plugs, public play, blindfolds, and more. I do tend to lean toward the dirtier side of things than simple pain.

My biggest limits are no financial exchange or urethral insertions. I am working on building up my pain tolerance, but right now, heavy pain is a soft limit. Needles don't do anything for me, and blood makes me think of work, so not into those either.

I am currently working on getting in shape, learning more about cooking, learning to tie rope, and getting better at ice skating. Any help with these goals is greatly appreciated.

I am always interested in meeting other military/veterans or health care personnel. Open to all races, body types, and ages able to legally get a drink in a bar.

Thank you for your time and consideration. I hope to hear from you soon.