Hey! I’m a Creative switch, tending towards gentle dom, though sometimes just want to relax and be taken care of. looking for my loving and kinky partner in a long-term monogamous and kinky relationship. I wanna be someone’s partner/dom/boyfriend/best friend and more all in one!

I'm a dreamy artist with my head in the clouds, but sometimes come off as quiet, calculating and reserved before you know me. If you get close to me you will see my extravagant, chaotic and energetic side. If theres any contradiction in this post its beacuse I dont think we are ever just one way.

I am a dog person and have a cat. Im a bit of a nerd, scifi and fantasy are great, I enjoy gaming too, so if you are also into that and a bit nerdy, that would be a bonus!

Looking for someone who wants to be a part of my life, good morning and goodnight messages, conversation throughout the day. Tell me you're thinking of me, miss me, need me. I want to be there for you when you have a bad day, talk you through problems and hype you up for new things. Im into giving praise and compliments regularly. And im sure you deserve them. Ideally id like this to develop into a lifetime relationship not just long term.

I want you to be strong and powerful in your life and help you with that, id love you to come home to be mine, to hold and tell how good and cute and beautiful you are. I much prefer someone more clingy to one who remains distant. Though its okay for that to take time. I do understand that as sometimes I do need alone time. But i'm always available if you need me.

If you're the type to just ghost someone, rather just don't message, id prefer you say what you don't like, or why you think it wont work, basic communication. I try to always express my needs, and when I cant I ask for understanding and conversation, not reaction.

I believe we should be equals in life, but I also love the eyes of someone looking up at me asking what I want them to do, or begging for release.

Im kind, patient, and hard to anger. I dont believe in shouting matches and confrontation, rather communication. (though I do enjoy being rilled up by a brat sometimes)

Im constantly curious and love learning new things. I have a silly sense of humor and love throwing jokes out to see what sticks

I love the feeling of devotion and being important to someone. with power to make them feel good with words and touch and my attention

I don't want or have children. Monogamous. Non religious. DDF Non smoker.

I want to be flirty friends first, hence online first. lets see if we can converse and have things we can both enjoy together. I very much need emotional and mental compatibility before sexual. for me it aids the attraction. If we hit it off then I dont really think location matters, we can find a way. Im going to be leading an adventurous few years of travel so lets talk about that too.

Physical Attraction is important too of course.
Me: White, decent shape,enjoy the outdoors, hiking etc, average height, brown hair, blue eyes, bearded, silver fox in the making, been called handsome enough to believe it, but not enough for it to ever get old. (there are photos of my lower half in my profile, face in our messages)

Im not sure I ever get over the feeling of not being able to keep my hands off my partner.

I have a high sex drive and hope to find someone to keep up with me, or even exceed. Generally into more sensual sex, and mutual body worship, but with a brat egging me on I can go more primal and pleasure focused (think you up against the wall held up by my lust)

Kinks: (in no order)

praise - giving, cockwarming, restraints/bondage, oral - everything to do with it, breeding (fantasy, the act not the consequence irl), free-use, cnc sleep sex, affection, cuddles and kissing, shower sex, pushing you up against things, touching you power exchange, sensation play, waking up to cock worship, Blindfolds, Brats, Breast/Nipple Play, Creampie (giving), Freckles, Outdoor sex, Snuggling, Tit Fucking, Primal fucking , affectionate domination

Curious About: Anal, induced lactation Breastfeeding, Candle Wax, Fucked and/or played with while sleeping or half awake, Voyeurism, Light Discipline, public sex, pegging

Limits: diapers, age regression/ageplay, scat, blood, needles, cheating, permanent damage, non-monogamy

If thats not enough for what im looking for.

Im hoping You are: Creative, adventurous, intelligent, passionate, and affectionate. liberal, and free thinking. Non Cigarette smoker. Physically I have a soft spot for the bigtittygothgf, alt girls, busty petite, athletic girls and redheads. though none of that is a need at all! Attraction is about a lot more than a type. I'd love a photo of you but only when you're comfortable.

I hope to hear from you, I just a message or a chat away.