Hi 👋

I hope you had a lovely weekend.

My post is a little bit different and I’m looking for in real life long term leading to marriage and children. You’re a dominant single man aged at least 40 or above classy and smart. Just missing a lifelong partner. You’re located in Birmingham or surrounding areas or have plans actual plan to relocate to Brum/ surrounding areas. Just a teeny preference if you’re tall and have masculine hands or if you’re constantly being told you’re masculine then do consider reading the rest of this post.

I work and study but my main source of pure joy is spending time with close friends and family. Life is tooo short and I’m at the point in life that I take great pride in choosing who I spent my time with. I’d rather have 2 close friends than 200 people are rarely see other than social media updates. I don’t post on social media as I’d rather have eyes on you and what you like/passions or if something is worrying you etc. And I’m a bbw so you should be cool with. I don’t drink anymore or smoke/take drugs and I would prefer this. As I’m trying to lead a more healthier lifestyle and I would appreciate someone who encourages this.

You: apart from what I’ve mentioned above are a hard working individual that appreciates the more subtle nuances of life. You don’t need to score each week or prowl the bars for women but you take the time to create a connection and nurture that into a partnership. You’re a natural born leader and a dom. You provide support on whichever it’s needed but also can rely on a partner without feeling self conscious. I do enjoy a sensual pleasure dom alongside kinks. I haven’t explained this very well but essentially foreplay can start anywhere from light strokes to suggestive phrases and much more.

We’re likely to get on if you enjoy playing board/mobiles games together, read, exchange Spotify playlists, enjoy theatre and exhibitions, old places, cuddling, love language is touch and communication whether through texts or conversations. You’re into marvels, HP, BBC comedies from 70s onwards, Star Trek, Disney, Italy, winter breaks, sightseeing, law, criminology, finance (part of my studies) and more!

The above isn’t an exhaustive list but just to give a few ideas however if you’re into sports/gaming/cars I have no issues with that but I’d be delighted if you’d consider teaching me as well.

I am very independent but I would like to consider traditional or twist on trad roles in a relationship but this is not set in stone and open to discussion with the right partner.

If you’re white/christian/muslim then please make a mention of this in your message.