Now, this is the point where I normally think "why am I even typing this into a Reddit void when I can't even sum up my world view, lust desires in a thesis let alone a Reddit post". But here I am, going against my better judgement, in the hope of something that feels human.

"Hmm, ok". I hear you say, but what I mean is, how many times do you wish you'd approached someone but let it slide? I know I've had those moments of what if. Perhaps they're driven by our urges and desires more than anything else. Or perhaps not.

I feel that I'm wasting my opportunity at life by passing those I don't know. Yes, I'm also the guy that prefers a quite night in rather than "beers with the lads" or "Jane from finances leaving do". No disrespect to the lads, or Jane for that matter, I wish her all the best, but respectfully, do me a favour. Nope.

I prefer more honest genuine connections, I have space in my life to focus on the indulgence of pleasure. Mutual pleasure. Where we can understand our wants and desires without the confines of judgment. We'd define those ourselves.

I'm not looking for love, I have that. I'm looking for excitement, I'm looking forward to the ping on my phone when you message, to crave the time we spend together. I don't know what it's called but to me it's just two people being themselves and ending the ride.

I don't claim to have a 50ft cock or that I'll fuck you to kingdom come, erm no.

What I can offer is genuine attention, kindness, empathy, respect and understanding. Live your life, if you're looking for some occasional indulgence, let's see if some of the things we want align.

Physically, I'm in decent shape, 5'7" tall (or short if you prefer), I have a personality type of INFP and am an ambivert at heart, so I flow on the level of others. I give the energy I receive back. I'm perfectly aware that this is a bit of a rant. What I'm trying to say is that I like people, honest genuine people who understand themselves, accept the contradictions they are and embrace everything with a positive look on the world.

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