Funny how AI has turned everyone into a wordsmith, making polished posts easier to build than furniture from Ikea. It makes me wonder how much of what we see actually reflects the person behind the profile? These days, personality feels as curated as a LinkedIn headshot. So, how do we cut through the gloss and get to know someone beneath the surface?

In light of these observations I'm keen to meet up sooner rather than later. Ideally in person, but SFW video call is for now also a decent option.

A little bit about me: I'm an educated professional, 5'9, and I love staying active, whether having fun in climbing gym or martial arts class. Eyes hiding behind a pair of geeky glasses, appealing accent (at least to some), and sense of humour that involves silly pun jokes. I live in Central/East London but for interesting company I'll happily use TFL (than light faster?). Friends and partners say I’m kind and open-minded, though they might just be buttering me up for more home-cooked meals (allegedly "surprisingly tasty for how healthy it was"). On quieter days, I’m all for board games, shared meals, or simply sleeping in.

I believe in building connections based on what we do together, rather than what we can't do without each other. As someone who identifies as ENM, I'm looking for like-minded individuals who share my passion for exploring non-traditional relationships. While experience is a plus, I'm also happy to connect with people who are genuinely interested in learning and growing together.

Additionally I am somewhat kinky (occasionally attending munches and other events, dominant leaning, and if you are inclined in a compatible way I'd be happy to discuss details. I've got experience across a range of fun activities — some sensation-based, some more psychological. Always respectful of boundaries, always up for honest conversations about preferences.

If any of this resonates with you, let's chat over a cup of leafy brew or a casual video call, and see where our interests intersect. No pressure, just a chance to meet someone new and real.