About Me:

Hey! I’m a 30-year-old man living in South West London (5’10, white, in okay shape but working to improve). I’m on the lookout for a new mate—another guy in his mid-20s to mid-30s who’s also based here in London or nearby. I’m generally pretty easygoing and adaptable, and I tend to click best with people who are confident, assertive, and don’t mind calling the shots.

My Vibe:

• I’m happiest when I’m hanging with someone who feels comfortable taking the lead—whether that’s choosing a place to eat, picking the next show to watch, or deciding that they fancy a spot of wrestling and want to pin me to the floor.

• I love focussing on the needs and happiness of those close to me (and I love it even more when those needs are communicated to me clearly and directly).

• I’m not seeking anything romantic or overly sexual, but I do value a dynamic where we’re open and comfortable with one another, and I understand that sometimes dominant people need their pleasure to be prioritised.

What I’m Into:

• Movies & Musicals: Always down for a movie night or a trip to the West End.

• Games: From video games to board games—single player RPGs are usually my jam but a bit of friendly rivalry keeps things fun!

• Travel: Whether it’s exploring London or taking a day trip to somewhere new, I’m up for an adventure.

• Live Music, Coffee & Cocktails: Catching a show, chatting over a latte, or discovering a new cocktail bar… count me in!

These are just a few of the things which I enjoy, but ultimately I’m more interested in discovering what makes someone tick. I love to spend quality time secure in the knowledge that whatever we’re doing is exactly as they want it.

What I’m Looking For:

• Someone who wants to hang out face-to-face and genuinely enjoys building a solid connection in person.

• A naturally confident, decisive personality that complements my laid-back, more submissive style.

• Someone who is a clear, intelligent communicator, both in how they respond to this post and how they express themselves day to day. If you take an interest in the post, please make sure to send a full introductory message about yourself and what you’re looking for. 

• If you’re seeking a mate who appreciates your leadership and looks up to you, then we might be a great match.