I'm a people pleaser. Always have been. It comes naturally to me to put in the effort to make people I care about feel good. Friends. Family. All my connections that I value I want to feel respected and admired. I have a strong social circle because of this. But what I'm missing in my life is the intimate side - and I guess I'm looking for someone who feels the same.

Touch, worship and praise is my love language when it comes to physical and mental stimulation towards those I sexually connect with. I would describe myself as creative, ambitious, intelligent, a good conversationalist, emotionally in touch - not shy to express my admiration for those that inspire me, and above all: loyal and honest.

I'm a Dom but a very affectionate and playful dom. I'm happy to take the lead and keep it slow and sensual one moment, and take it a little faster and rougher in the next. Either way, I'm comfortable taking the lead while all about giving a lot(!!!) of attention that is responsive to your desires and needs. As such I'm particularly attentive in foreplay and aftercare as I feel these moments get underappreciated in their potential to carry on pleasure. Essentially giving you pleasure gives me pleasure. I've been told a number of times I'm good with my hands.

Anyhow, I'm here seeking to connect, socialize, and potentially meet any like-minded affection-desiring 18-50 year old females for friendship with intimacy and sexual exploration. I am especially attracted to intelligent and creative people who have a playful and work driven personality. I am very drawn to women who are independent and have ambition which is why my appreciation and work as a freelance writer has kept me so close to the world of strong independent women - where people are free to express themselves without judgement. I'm attracted to women who know what they like, are communicative, and are passionate about what they do. But maybe from time to time, need to de-stress and require someone reliable and responsive. Someone they feel they can be themselves with and have sex that is satisfying and fun. Perhaps a little cute and silly at times. But know that I'll always be in the mood to lay in bed and have conversations.

A little bit more about me:

5'8, brown curly hair, blue eyes. Slim build. Big film and tv nerd. I watch everything! I probably watch more films in a month than you do in a year 😜 (Lets compare Letterboxd accounts). Bit of a night owl because of it. Other hobbies include gardening and growing, running, Judo, cinema dates, reading and podcasts. I Like to stay up to date on arts and culture.

Health, fitness and hygiene is important to me but I'm no gym rat. Any exercise or sport I do, I do for fun.

Love to cook for people.

If I sound of interest to you then don't be shy. I hope to fill the day with conversation that might lead to something x