Ideally looking for a connection, I'm open to friends or something in-between and seeing where things go. But my intention ideally is for a long term relationship. I have started on apps recently, but trying here too to try and find my human!

I'm 32, white, 6ft tall, slim build (75-80kg), blue eyes and brown hair and clean shaven (I can't grow a beard... sadly) Single (if that needs to be said!), an INFJ (for those into that), an ambivert (extroverted introvert) ugh, left handed, left footed and generally left leaning (politically), and live alone in my own place in London. Yay for adulting! I work in tech, though not a developer... With that said I am a bit geeky, play games (PC), though not too heavily... I also geek out on stuff like Doctor Who, Marvel, Harry Potter, Star Wars, The Boys, Sci-fi stuff generally, etc. more than a casual fan but not quite hardcore either I guess. My humour ranges from dad jokes to dark humour, generally a happy, playful and chill guy but knows when to be serious too.

Geeky stuff aside, I am somewhat sporty... I go to the gym semi-regularly, play sports and run too. Predominantly badminton atm, some football, tennis and the odd top golf sort of thing. I cook and bake, more prefer baking (i've a pretty sweet, sweet tooth) I haven't travelled this year, but generally do like travelling, I rarely drink and don't smoke, but all for activities, culture, food and history (even if I suck at remembering it).. There's plenty more layers to me, but this is already turning into a wall of text :') Sorry! - Anything in particular, just ask! I'm fairly an open book and happy to talk :)

NSFW stuff (if you're a perv and/or interested...)

I'm naturally a switch, but gentle dom leaning, 6.5" uncut with decent thickness, kink friendly (though perfectly okay with vanilla too) DDF, - Happy to answer any Q's here or just have a deeper discussion if you've any kinks/interests specifics...

About you...

I'd probably say I'm looking for someone 7 years either side, but that's not a hard limit, if you feel we may be a good match, similar energy, etc. I am open to chatting and seeing where things go. I'd prefer someone within a healthy-ish range, from slim to curvy, but other than that I'm good! Your race, religion, dietary stuff, etc. is all open and good.

I would certainly prefer someone London based, or as close as possible. But don't mind some distance, that said, anything long term, I'd be keen to close that gap sooner than later!