TLDR: older attached guy would like to meet a woman for sex and LOLs in the new year please please

Hi, and thanks ever so much for stopping by. A very merry festive season to you all, but one has to wonder why you’re reading an r4r sub over Christmas. I imagine it’s for pretty much the same reason as I’m posting. So here’s hoping the New Year brings the APs we all deserve. Putting this out there early to try and beat the sales 🤣

Cards on the table:

I’m in a dead-bed LTR, staying together for the usual reasons of financial stability, and childcare. Definitely not a cake eater. This isn’t my first rodeo.

I’m 54, 177cm 87kg, fit, healthy, and brush up okay in a certain light or if you’re not wearing your glasses. 😉

Me: Educated, well-travelled, well-read, and well-hung. Emotionally-intelligent, humanitarian, passionate, affectionate, feminist, LGBT positive, politically left, animal & eco-friendly. I’m enthusiastic about the arts, respectful, neurodivergent-positive, (neurotypicals are also more than welcome), and work in the cultural industries. A (semi) demisexual with a side order of sapio, seasoned with a pinch of hedonism, known for a having good sense of self and humour, and a friendly, caring, demeanour.

I’m hoping to find a way around our mutual lack of affection and intimacy and to step out of our regular lives once in a while to indulge in some much-missed fun, reciprocal appreciation and caring, affectionate companionship.

You: Probably (but not necessarily) attached, sharing some of the qualities above and looking for something similar. If you’re reading this with half a mind to take that initial step, then I’d like to think that I’m a safe, nonjudgmental choice to take that step with. I come with excellent OPSEC and am always happy to discuss our respective predicaments and preferences so that both our wishes are met, with all the butterflies, support, and giggles in equal measure.

I’m sorry, but if you’re a Tory (do they even exist any more?), Farage supporter, climate-change denier, racist, TERF, SWERF or any other type of bigot then I’m not going to want to meet you, but all the very best in your search.

If we get past the initial cautious circling we can discuss how we’d like to proceed, finding room for each of our circumstances and to meet as and when our respective stars align, without any expectations beyond good friendship, and really great sex. (Although I’d be more than happy to settle for really very good or even just very good sex if truth be known 🤣).

Drop me a quick line if I’ve piqued your interest.

xJJx