I’m 40, happily married for years, but looking to add a discreet, meaningful connection with a married or otherwise attached woman. If this resonates, read on.

What I Offer:

A partner who’s upfront, confident, and values what’s missing in both of our lives and will genuinely want to find out more about you, your day, your hopes and your desires.

Sharing messages throughout the day, memes, laughter, connection, and those stolen moments to say hi—and more.

Kids? No problem. I have them too so I understand the balancing act

Someone who understands that life and kids get in the way sometimes so you may not be available to message sometimes.

About me:

Educated and successfull - Well educationed and someone who knows the difference between “there,” “their,” and “they’re.” I come from very humble beginings and I'm proud that I've built a successful career in finance that I love.

Athletic - I value the importance of looking after myself, dressing well and working out regularly. I play badminton once a week and swim. I don't drink, smoke or do drugs.

Passionate about Traveling - I love the escapism of a far flung holiday and regularly travel abroad. I'd to chat about the places you've visited, the adventures you've had, and the people you've met.

Sane and emotionally mature - I've spent a lot of time working on myself and my mental health. I pride myself on being a very calm and collected individual who keeps their cool in any situation, is good at defusing tense situations and chooses to see the best in people. I'm not a push over by any means but I do pick my fights very carefully.

What I’m Looking For:

You're NOT a seller-: If I want to talk to a business I'd go elsewhere.

UK based-: For practicality I'd prefer someone in the same timezone as me.

You’re Upfront: Be honest about what you’re looking for. Body type isn’t important—knowing what you want is.

You’re Thoughtful-: An introduction with substance is appreciated; two or three words won’t cut it.

Be Passionate-: Our interests don't have to align but you should have some passions and be happy to talk about them.

Great Personality-: Be laid back, chatty and inquisitive. I appreciate someone who can engage in a conversation on silly topics as well as more meaningfull ones

Sexual Chemistry-: You’re comfortable talking about what turns you on, and when those sexually charged moments happen, you’re not afraid to share a picture here or there. 

If this feels like a match, let’s explore what’s possible. If it doesn’t, no worries—just say so. I know I will!