I'm looking for a in-person dynamic - so you MUST be in the south east of the UK, ideally Kent. I would accept South London, but I'm deep into Kent, rather than the london border, so pleased take that into consideration. I would be looking to start off online, but with a view to meet soon should we click. I'm looking for something leaning towards TPE, it's not something I've got a huge amount of experience in, but I'm really interested in pursuing it with the right person. I'd like us to get along, and be able to have good conversations, but I would like a heavy focus on kink. Life does get it in the way, and I understand that. But I'd like to meet fairly regularly - I have a high sex drive and just love being used.

I'm 5"9, curvy with nice perky tits and juicy lips. I've longish red/ auburn hair, brown eyes and would consider myself attractive - and I have a very lovely smile. Sub wise, I'm obident - 100% not a brat, but I can be cheeky occasionally. 420 friendly.

I'm looking for a cruel dominant man, who leans toward the cruel, manipulative and controlling side of things, but who knows how to be sweet and soft too. I need someone who's experienced, and can handle more intense play - and who can provide praise, affection and emotional intelligence too. Sharing of my top kinks is a must - i don't expect all, but a good number( although if you do share all, top of the queue) which are : humiliation, degredation, CNC (more dubcon and coersion), objectification, body worship, messy face, body writing, rimming, control, bondage, CMNF, prolonged use and praise. I do have a wide range of kinks, and would be happy to include more, but the ones mentioned are the most important to share with a Dom.

The type of man I'm looking for: Must haves : A man over the age of 30. Please be in Kent - open to someone in London, but I am 2(ISH) hours away, so I really would prefer someone more local. Be single or ENM - I am Ethically non monogamous, and I would need you to actively enjoy the idea of me sleeping with others, or be neutral about it. Be an experience Dom who shares my kinks and who enjoys more than just aggression and rough sex, who understands and enjoys the mental element kink. I've a high sex drive and would be looking for someone who wants prolonged play and things like TPE .

Ideally, over 5"10 and more on the stocky/dad bod side - but I'm not too fussy on looks, I care much more about the dynamic and if we're a personality match. I can travel, but I'd rather host - unless you are very close to me.

Main limits : pain/impact play, breeding, anything illegal/permanent/ involved unconsenting people (this include if you have a partner who doesn't know you're looking to meet/sleep with other women), negative degradation based on my appearance.