✨Rare genuine nice guy here, please read ✨

I'm 42 years old, long term married but unhappy, completely dead bedroom and I am more or less trapped in the relationship for various reasons. I'm clean (only had one sexual partner before), white medium build with 8" uncut cock, and shaved head. I'm quite the independant man, like to do my own thing.

I'm seeking a woman for a discreet long term in-real-life FWB relationship. Maybe you're also in a relationship or marriage, looking for fun and need discretion too?

I'm not getting any affection (not even a cuddle!) so if you're quite affectionate then that's a real bonus for me, I am responsive to that and will be affectionate back.

Whilst body type isn't an issue for me, I am particularly attracted to small or petite women, but that's absolutely not a deal breaker - I'm keen to explore FWB with someone who I click with, looks are just a bonus for me 🙂

I enjoy dance music (but like most other music too tbh, a good tune's a good tune! I go to Melting Pot, Glitterbox, Colours events etc). Also enjoy walking, running, gym (bonus points if you're a David Lloyd Renfrew member - but be aware so are my family so discretion still required if we have the same gym lol), also cycling and hillwalking. not really into movies or TV, don't mind gaming but its not a habit (I just enjoy playing the Switch on occasion)

If you're in the Paisley, Renfrewshire, or Glasgow area, DM me for a chat - please be willing to verify with a photo (you don't need to show face yet, I won't either until we know we're clicking and are prepared to meet, then I'm happy to show).

Please be genuine! I can (usually) spot a bot or a time waster pretty quickly - so to help give me assurance that you're genuine, please include the word 'Independent' in your DM.

I can very rarely host, so outdoor meet, car meet, or round at yours would be best. But when I can host, i"ll let you know, but it'll only be couple of times a year overnight, most other times it'd be short-notice windows of opportunity. Hosting for me would look very passionate and erotic. We'd take a shower together and then have passionate sex, some chat, then again 😈. I'm open to any kinks you have and happy to share mine (just ask, but its really nothing extreme).

For discretion, communication needs to remain here on Reddit in the first instance. I am not on social media. If we click, then for absolute discretion we can take our conversation to another completely private chat app altogether (one we don't normally use and can easily hide)

Please know, my family has Find My Friends - and the shared car I drive has an app which shows the journeys taken on a map, so we need to bear this in mind (all part of the fun!) :)

My vision of our FWB relationship is we meet every so often - we can agree on frequency and location, I am free once per week midweek, and occasional weekends - all during the day. I propose we meet at locations I 'usually' drive to first, ensuring we click before deciding to go further.

Evening meets would be rare unless there is an event on that we can go to together (in which case we'd conjure up a scenario that we're going 'with work' or 'with running club / gym buddy' or similar). For bigger nights out my mates might also be there, but we can still catch up, just ensure that we share we're just buddies from gym, running, work etc - only FWB in private ;)

We also don't need to live out any 'benefits' at every meet either (unless you want to, in which case of course I'm game!), I'd love to explore the Friends element as much as the Benefits.

Do get in touch if this interests you. I am keen for us to click and have some great, sneaky fun. The sooner the better :)