First, as I know from experience that my inbox will be flooded with men who've not read the full post, or think they'll shoot their shot anyway. For the sake of my own sanity of trawling through hundreds of messages from men who don't fit the parameters I'm looking for, DO NOT MESSAGE ME if you're not living/based in the SE of England. I have no interest in anything long distance, even if you're willing to travel.

Secondly, if you're younger than 28, or older than 45, again, DO NOT MESSAGE ME. I'm absolutely, categorically, 100% not interested in playing with anyone outside of this age range. No if's, buts or maybes.

Finally, I'm looking for someone who has a reasonable to alot of experience of being a Dom - please DO NOT MESSAGE ME if you're new to kink or are still finding your feet. I'm an experienced sub who is very kinky, and I enjoy play that's towards the more intense side of things. I need someone who is also very kinky, and who has the experience to not only handle that, but actively enjoy it.

Now that's out the way, let's get into it! So I know NYE is over a month away, but I am looking to see that new year in with a bang and I want to share that with someone who I'll have a good time with. So ideally we'd met a couple of times first.

I'm 5"9, curvy with nice perky tits and juicy lips. I've longish red/ auburn hair, brown eyes and would consider myself attractive - and I have a very lovely smile. Sub wise, I'm obident - 100% not a brat, but I can be cheeky occasionally. I've a high sex drive and would be looking for someone who wants prolonged play/ also has a high sex drive. I'm also 420 friendly.

What I'm looking for: A night of drinking, smoking, and lots of kink. I want to spend the night being submissive to you, worshipping you cock, balls and if I'm lucky, your asshole. I'm looking for a dominant man, who's experienced and shares my top kinks, which are : humiliation, degredation, objectification, body worship, messy face, body writing, rimming, control, bondage, CMNF, prolonged use and praise. I do have a wide range of kinks, and would be happy to include more, but the ones mentioned are the most important to share with a Dom.

The type of man I'm looking for: A man between the ages of 28-45. Please be in Kent - open to someone in London, but I am 2(ISH) hours away, so I really would prefer someone more local. Ideally, over 5"10 and more on the stocky/dad bod side - but I'm not too fussy on looks, I care much more about the dynamic and if we're a personality match. I'm looking for a Dom who enjoys more than just aggression and rough sex, who understands and enjoys the mental element kink. I'm looking for someone with matching kinks to the ones I mentioned, but as I said, I do have a wide range of kinks. I can travel, but I'd rather host - unless you are very close to me.