Cuffing season is upon us! As the winter nights close in and Christmas creeps ever closer, like many I find myself missing having someone to look forward to the festive season with. Given that this season makes romance so easy with warm fires, beautiful lights, hot drinks, and warm cuddles, I figured it was time for a post to see if anybody was looking for the same!

I’m a 30 year old guy from just north of London. I’ve got blond hair, blue eyes, a gingery beard, and a now shrinking dad bod. I stand at 6ft tall, and I spend most of my time in a suit and tie. I’ve been single for just over a year, and I live alone.

Work wise I run a tech startup and also do the odd bit of consulting when the opportunity arises. I’m engineering minded and very logical in that sense, but also extremely extroverted, outgoing, and engaging (so I’m told!). I love learning new things and I possess more books than any reasonable human should. I’m very active socially, I’m often one of the last to leave the party, and I love planning big events and getting people engaged. Hobbies wise I sail, shoot, ski, ride motorbikes, make things, volunteer for a number of charities, and collect some very specific things.

As I mentioned in the title, I’m looking for a specific sort of bend on a relationship. 95% of the time I’m looking for a normal, healthy, cute relationship with someone I adore. The other 5% of the time I’m looking for someone I can mould into an obedient princess and train to serve me. Now, sometimes that might spill out of the bedroom a little. I do like my partner to look cute for me and dress to please. I also like clearly defined roles in relationships. I bring a strong masculine element, and so I’m looking for someone to bring a strong feminine element. There’s nothing better in my experience than when those two forces come together and everything just clicks. That’s not to say I’m looking for strict 1950’s style gender roles across the whole of the relationship (though I’d potentially be open to it), but rather complementary energies. I want someone I respect and adore, but who also wants to be treated a certain way sometimes 😉😇.

So, if you think we might get on, you’d like some cute winter dates that maybe move into more, and you’re partial to a slightly alternative bedroom life, drop me a message! I’d love to see where this could go!